What does it mean when your ex girl sends you pictures via cell phone?

[Jesterface195]

I met my ex girl about 2 years ago, we started dating within two weeks of meeting each other. we dated for six months, it was an intense relationship, she broke up with me because I was too much into drugs and she couldn't handle it anymore (been sober since me and her broke up 1 1/2 years ago) but she still wanted to be friends and we've kept in touch with each other since then but I tried recently to get back with her and she said no because I got too "attached", I think she meant jealous because I did one time ask her where she was and what she was doing in an angry way, so I stopped talking to her and she called me saying that I treat her different and I just told her I treat her like any friends of mine, but now just recently she's been sending me more texts asking me what I'm up to or just small talk and sending me pics of herself and some are flirty sexy lingerie pix, I think I messed up cause I sent her one of me shirtless last night, but whatever I guess. yeah just wanted to know if she's messing with me or just what the hell it all means?

[CapnBlack]

Shes enjoying playing with you. some girls and guys sorta get f***ed up like this...the whole I've got you in my pocket...Its terrible and you might just wanna tell her flat out you don't wanna be wrapped around her finger like this because the flirting makes you want a relationship. This is what's happening I'm SURE of it. almost.

[sikoo31]

you might have played reverse psychology on her by accident...

[Jesterface195]

What how?

[sikoo31]

by treating her like a friend and not someone you have a crush on. you're making it so that she doesn't feel special with you anymore and she misses it.

well that's one theory, I don't know for sure.

[Jesterface195]

I don't think that's it. Everytime I try to get close emotionally she talks to me less. She's very weird I guess, its like Everytime I treat her like all my other friends that are girls she tries to get my attention by sending pix or talkin to me about stuff "just friends" wouldn't say to each other, and when she does have me hooked on her she doesn't hit me up as much.

[sikoo31]

mind games, mind games, mind games...

i know what's going on... I think she's afraid of commitment... she wants you but she's afraid to get stuck with you.

most likely its just her own insecurity, not you, she would have done this to any other ex.

[Jesterface195]

That makes sense..she does like a lot of guys.Dam. is there anything I can do to push the situation in my favor?

[sikoo31]

get over her man. she needs to grow up.

[Jesterface195]

Easier said than done

[sikoo31]

trust me I know, but there is no other way to put it.

3 things that might help: she doesn't deserve you... there are a lot of girls better than her... and plenty of girls will like you just for being you.

[Jesterface195]

yeah all of that is true that doesn't make me forget about her dumba** all my friends I kick it with she hangs out with them too.

[sikoo31]

well then all you can do is wait it out. time will pass and next thing you know, you won't even think of her that way.

you'll see her and just think of her as another girl you went out with that wasn't the right one.

[Jesterface195]

sucksss

[sikoo31]

its actually pretty cool once you're over her. I was obsessed with this one girl in my high school, she was the most beautiful girl I'd ever seen, big round blue eyes, pale, curly hair, nice body and some DD's. and she was mexican and actually spoke spanish, which really surprised me. she was smart and she loved to get high like me and we got along really well, and I made her laugh and she made me laugh... but I never asked her out cause she got a boyfriend and I had to get over her...

[sikoo31]

but once I did, it was great, now I see her and we just talk, we can talk about anything and I'm relaxed cause I'm not worrying like I would have before, when I was always trying to impress the girl of my dreams.

i'm with someone actually better now, and I'm glad I got over her.

[Jesterface195]

Yea well I've never been this Hung up on a girl dude I've always been able to get over chicks easy. Like a month at the most. But I've had feelings for her for almost two years now which is insane when I think about it.

[sikoo31]

man I was the same way, little crushes here and there and all that. took me about 3 years to over this girl.

[Jesterface195]

Lol dam so I'm just gonna have suffer through this s***?

[sikoo31]

its all you CAN do... life isn't easy man, especially with a broken heart...

[Jesterface195]

i hear that

[diamond3]

she wants to f*** it sounds like

[Jesterface195]

s***, I really care about this girl, I hope that's not all she's wantin from me

[Anonymous]

She's attracted to you..