Should I just a get a girl pregnant within the first 6 months of knowing her because I want a kid?

[hardboiledink]

It seems like after the honeymoon period of about 3-6 months women fall out of love a bit and end up becoming mean, testing the man, and are truly their "mean" selves at that point.

I'd like a kid and this seems to be the pattern. But I've noticed a lot Of relationships with kids had unplanned kids some couples last some don't it's a 50/50 chance. So why not just have a kid and see what happens because it is what I'd like to do? What do you think?

[Oliverlogan263]

Woah dude, seriously bad idea. Getting a random girl pregnant just to have a kid is super messed up and not fair to the kid or girl at all.

For starters, you gotta actually be in a committed relationship with someone before deciding to make a whole human together. Jumping into that after only a few months of casually dating is super irresponsible.

Who's to say the girl would even want to be a mom yet? Or that you guys would stay together long term? Then you'd be co-parenting forever with some chick you barely knew or deal with child support , you dont wanna deal with that. Total disaster waiting to happen.

Plus kids are no joke - they're a ton of work and cost crazy money. You gotta have your shit sorted to give a kid the stable home life they deserve. Rushing into that would be dumb as hell.

My advice is wait till you find a girl you really care about and who truly cares about you too. Date her for like a year at least before talking babies. Make sure you're actually right for each other long term. Don't be impatient, man - do it the right way or you'll just end up regretting it.

[BCRanger10]

No, you should marry her first and then have children with her. A child should be the fruit of the love and fidelity that husband and wife have for each other, not a test of survival. Both parents at that point are placing an undue burden on the child.

A couple should wait to produce children until they have entered the relationship in which children are most expected and anticipated, which is marriage.

[jahaims]

You shouldn't ever reproduce if you are asking this.

[Billlewis]

Sure. Why not?

[Billlewis]

I just started following you and I'd like to invite you to follow me as well if you want.

[Lowiu]

Absolutly not