Damn bro, that chick really did a number on you, huh? Breakups are always tough, but it sounds like she went out of her way to mess with your head even more. That's a super wack thing for her to do.
But you can't let one bad experience make you lose faith in yourself forever, ya feel me? Easier said than done, I know, but you gotta start rebuilding your confidence from the inside out.
First off, cut off the liquor - that shit will only drag you down deeper. Hit the gym instead, play some ball, get your endorphins up naturally. Start taking care of your body and mind again.
Next time you're out, walk tall like her lies don't mean shit. Keep your head high even if it feels fake at first. Chicks probably aren't even thinking about you like that no more!
And you just gotta put in the work and get back talking to new people little by little. Join some clubs, game online, link with old friends - start fresh how you want. Prove to yourself you got game again on your own terms.
Just don't isolate bro, that makes the spiral worse. You got this dawg! One step at a time till the confidence is back. Fuck what anyone else says - you do you and show the real you. New girls will see that, trust!
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just ignore her words. imagine she knew that she was lied just to hurt you, but false.
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Well, apparently, they saw that there was some issue
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