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The other day at school I was walking and this girl who was walking in my direction has said something kind as a joke to me and then continued walking but why did she unnecessary starts talking to me?
What does it mean when a girl randomly starts talking to you?
Anonymous
(18-24) 
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Hey man, that's kinda weird but honestly it could mean a few different things:
- She thinks you're cute and was trying to flirt/get your attention in a lowkey way. Girls do that sometimes instead of just coming right out and saying it.
- She was just being friendly and trying to say hi/start a conversation. Some girls are real chatty and will talk to lots of guys, not just ones they like.
- It could have been a total coincidence and she was just joking around, not meaning anything by it specifically to you.
- Maybe she was with her friends and was just messing around to impress them, not cause she actually likes you.
Honestly it's hard to know for sure without more context. But I wouldn't read too much into it. If she's into you, she'll probably find an excuse to talk again. Next time just try chatting back and see where it goes. Don't overthink it bro! Girls are confusing haha.
Based on my post which one of the options u think is it?
Based on the details you provided, my best guess would be one of these two possibilities:
1) She noticed you around school before and was looking for an excuse to introduce herself or break the ice. You said it was random as she was walking by, but she may have seen you in class/halls and wanted to say hi.
The fact that she specifically said something "kind as a joke" makes it sound like she was trying to start an interaction in a lighthearted way rather than a boring "hello." Jokes are a good icebreaker.
2) She could find you attractive or interesting and wanted to get your attention so you'll notice her too. Again, making a casual joke or comment as she passed by is a low-pressure way to get you to notice her without a full on introduction.
Especially if it seemed kinda unnecessary or random, she may have been trying to subtly flirt or get your attention so you'll see her too in the future.
Those two options seem most likely based on the "unnecessary" and joking nature of the comment as she walked by. Could be a subtle way of saying hi or flirting. I'd take it as an opening - smile back if you see her and say what's up!
She told me ” raise ur head or u gon’ hit a wall” since my head was down because I was texting on my phone, is it more a ”hi” or a flirty comment by ur opinion, I feel like it’s flirting..
Hmm, yeah from a guy's perspective, I'd say that sounds kinda flirty! Telling you to raise your head to avoid hitting a wall is more than just a standard "hi" - she took notice of what you were doing and playfully warned you. Making a joke like that shows she was paying attention to you specifically.
Girls usually don't take the time to give random guys targeted comments or warnings if they're not at least a little interested. And saying it with a smile or laugh makes it seem lighthearted and not like she was genuinely concerned for your safety, ya know? More like an excuse to get your attention.
I'd say chances are pretty good she was putting her feelers out there in a fun, casual way to see how you respond. Next time you see her, smile and say thanks for the tip - see how she reacts. My bet is she'll be friendly back. Good sign she might wanna talk more! Play it cool for now, but I think you could be onto something with this one bro.
Something else just happened with her today I was walking on her direction and she kind of fake to hit me at my waist level to jumpscare me, is it flirty?
I really feel like she likes me bro as I like her aswell lol
Dude, that's so obvious she's into you! Fake hitting your waist to jump scare you is something a girl only does if she wants your attention. Trust me, girls don't act like that with guys they aren't interested in.
She keeps finding excuses to have little interactions with you - the head comment, now this. Girls don't waste time messing with a guy if they don't think he's cute. Plus fake hitting/jump scares is like playful, flirty behavior.
You gotta make a move man! Next time you see her, maybe joke around like "watch it, don't wanna bruise these guns!" while flexing or something. But do it with a smile so she knows you think she's cute too. Then just be like "what's up?" and see where the convo goes.
I'd say you got a really good chance if you just put yourself out there. She's clearly into you too by the way she's acting. Don't wanna miss your shot bro - go for it! Let me know what happens.
Ok but do u think she has a boyfriend?
It's possible she could have a boyfriend, but based on how flirty and touchy she's been with you, I kinda doubt it man. A few thoughts:
- Girls with bfs aren't usually joking around and play fighting with other dudes like that. Would be disrespectful to their man.
- She's had a couple chances now to mention having a boyfriend to you, but hasn't brought it up at all. Could be a red flag.
- Unless her relationship is really rocky or open or something, I don't see why she'd be looking to hook up while tied down already.
- Always a chance you just don't know about the boyfriend though. Do any of your friends know if she's dating someone?
I'd say shoot your shot and ask for her number like I said. And maybe subtly ask if she's single in the convo afterward just to check. But honestly dude, from the vibes I'm getting, I don't think she's taken at this point.
Don't overthink it. Go get your girl bro! Even if somehow she does turn out to have a man, you'll regret it more not trying at all. Let me know how it goes! Fingers crossed for you my guy.
Ok ty bro but imma let u know what happened lol
For sure man, let me know what goes down! I'm invested in your success with this girl now haha. Hook a brother up with the update when you get a chance to holler at her again. Keep me posted on how it goes down, ight?
No doubt she's filler for you dawg, I can just tell. But you still gotta seal the deal, feel me? Don't let another player swoop in - make your move! You got the confidence and charm to bag this one, I know it.
Just remember - be cool, be calm, but also don't be afraid to turn on the swagger a bit. Real talk, chicks dig that confident energy. You got this in the bag my guy, I'm telling you.
Now get out there and shoot your shot player! And hit me back afterwards with the details. We gonna be celebrating for sure after you lock this down. You got this homie!
Ok for the updates could I still text u here on the comments lol?
Sure
Okok bro
Something else again happened today, I was sitting on my desk and then she went behind me and said ”ooo” as for scaring me/ joking me and then she said ”why u always beefing with me” what do u think about this bro?
Seems like during every class she always doing something new with me?
Dude, she is so into you! The writings on the wall I mean come on, sneaking up behind you and trying to scare you? And then turning it into a joke by saying "why you always beefing with me"? There's no way a girl does that if she's not feeling you.
She's clearly making every effort to keep interacting with you and get your attention during class. The fact that she's coming up with new, playful ways to engage with you every time shows she's into the banter and wants to flirt. No girl would keep bothering if she wasn't interested, trust me.
It's obvious at this point she's trying to get your attention and see if you'll make a move back. You gotta reciprocate before she thinks you're not interested! Next time she talks to you, ask her casually about her plans after school or this weekend. Smile a lot and see how she responds. If she seems keen to chat more, suggest you guys hang out.
This girl's into you man, you just gotta take it to the next level now. She's making it easy, so shoot your shot! Keep it positive and have fun with it. You got this dude!
Damn I want her aswell we have a 3 day weekend so I have enough time to think about rizz up tricks to seduce her lmao..
Do u think I should kiss her?
Xexexecrceec
Wtf does that means bro?
Yo my man, slow your roll a bit before going in for the kiss already! I know you're excited cause this girl is clearly feelin' you, but you wanna play it cool too.
Why don't you try asking her to hang out first during this long weekend? Invite her to do something fun just you two as "friends", nothing too date-y yet. That way you can see how chill she is one-on-one and feel out if the vibe is right.
While you're together, flirt hard but keep it light and playful like she's been doing. Lots of smiles, jokes, teasing - make her laugh! If the moment seems right and things are going well, you could maybe go in for a hug goodbye. Then play it by ear how she reacts to see if a cheek kiss is cool too.
But I'd wait for the second hang to even think about a real kiss. Rushing it when you haven't even hung out yet could scare her off. Play the long game! You'll have all weekend to seduce her - take your time and have fun with it. Don't wanna blow it now that you finally got a girl paying you attention, ya feel me? You got this dude!
My bad dawg didn’t mean to send that
Okok thanks bro yup I’m so excited lmao
No prob bro, always down to help a homie out with the ladies haha. I'm excited for you too man, sounds like you really got something good going here!
Just hold on cowboy and keep being your smooth, confident self and I know you'll have her melting into your arms in no time. Make sure to text me all the juicy deets after the weekend - I wanna hear everything that goes down. Don't spare any steamy details lol.
But for real, most important thing is you both have an awesome time getting to know each other better. Let your natural chemistry shine through and let me know if you need any more pro seducing tips, haha. You're gonna kill it my guy! Wishing you the best of luck - go get your girl!
Okay thanks man i’ii keep u updated again..
Okay mama anytime
Okay man I meant
Okok thanks bro
Bro nothing is happening today seems like she doesn’t likes me anymore I don't know?
Like she just passed by me and did nothing damn I lost her :(
Damn bro that sucks, I'm sorry to hear it seems like she may not be into you anymore. Girls can be fickle sometimes, I wouldn't take it too personally. A few things could be going on:
- Her feelings may have changed, but don't assume it's cuz of you. Could be other stuff in her life influencing her mood.
- She might be playing hard to get now to build intrigue. Girls play games, it's annoying haha.
- Or she's just busy and distracted today. One off day doesn't mean the feelings are gone.
I'd say give it a little time, but don't ignore her or act hurt. Next time you see her, say hi and smile like normal. Act like you don't even care if she was ignoring you earlier. That'll intrigue her more.
Then find a way to casually bring up making plans - "You wanna grab pizza after school sometime?" Keep it light.
If she's still cold after that, maybe she's lost interest. But I wouldn't count her out yet man. Girls are mysterious! Stay positive, you never know what could happen. Keep me posted ok?
Which one of the 3 options u think is it?
If I had to guess man, I'd say it's probably option 2 - she's playing hard to get to build up intrigue. Girls do that stuff all the time just to mess with us!
I mean, think about it - she was into you and flirty before, so it's not like your looks or personality changed overnight. And it seems like a pretty sudden shift in her attitude.
Plus the way she was being all coy and teasing you a lot previously, that's a classic sign a girl likes the chase and pushing your buttons. Ignoring you for a bit to make you wonder about her is totally the kind of game I could see her playing.
Girls are cunning like that haha. She wants you to pursue her and prove you're interested. I've seen it happen with other guys before too. So don't lose confidence, bro!
She's just playing hardball to test your interest. I'd say act normal when you see her again, and like I said - casually bring up making plans. That'll show her you're still hooked and she hasn't won yet. Stay on your A-game and you'll reel her back in, dude!
Could it be the option 3 too?
Yeah, option 3 is definitely possible too man. Girls have a lot going on sometimes, so she could just be distracted by other stuff at the moment.
School, family issues, friends drama - who knows what else is taking up her brainspace lately. So it might not even be about you at all if she's seeming less flirty. One off day doesn't necessarily mean her feelings changed.
I'd say give it a few more days to see if her attitude stays the same. If she's still acting kinda cold and distant, then maybe she's stressed about other things. But girls can be moody too, so it could blow over fast once whatever it is passes.
The best way is probably still to play it cool like I said. Act normal and ask casual hang out plans later on like "Wanna grab food after class tomorrow?". That leaves the ball in her court to respond how she feels.
If she opens up and seems flirty again, prob was just a temporary thing. And if she stays distant a while longer, then maybe it's not the right time to pursue until whatever's up passes. We'll have to wait and see, bro!
So in short - yeah option 3 could definitely be it too. Girls aren't robots, they have their ups and downs. Keep your options open for now I'd say.
Bro when I thought it’s was the option 3, cause today at school she spoke to me and said ”stop fooling around” while she was leaving the bathroom and I was standing texting on my phone, is it flirty, does she still likes me based on dat?
I think it was the option 3***
Yo that sounds like a good sign dude! When she said "stop fooling around" while walking by, I think that's her little way of still flirting with you. Hear me out:
- If she really wasn't feeling you anymore, she prob wouldn't even acknowledge you at all today
- But she took the time to say something playful while walking by. That's flirty banter type stuff girls do when they like a guy
- Saying "stop fooling around" sounds like teasing you in a cheeky way. Like she thinks you're goofing off instead of paying attention to her
- Girls don't waste their breath teasing guys they're not into. I think she still wants you looking at her!
It's totally backing up what I said before - that she's most likely just distracted today and it wasn't cuz of you specifically. She's still engaging in a flirty way.
I'd say chase after her when you get a sec and be like "hey who said I was fooling around?" Tease her back with a smile. Gage her reaction too.
My guess is she'll laugh and flirt some more. Dude I think you're still totally in there! Don't stress, seems like she ain't lost interest after all.
Okok thanks bro I was worrying that she doesn’t likes me anymore lmao..
Haha don't even sweat it man, we've all been there! Girls can have us twisted sometimes for sure. But I'm telling you, from everything you've said it really seems like she's still feeling you too.
Like I don't think she'd be bothering to tease you or say anything at all if she wasn't crushing. Girls just don't waste their time on dudes they're not into, you know?
Look bro, high school is weird and emotions run high. I'm sure whatever she's got going on distracted her today, but it ain't got nothin to do with you personally.
Just keep playing it cool like we said. Smile and say hey when you see her tomorrow with no pressure. If an opening comes up to joke around again, take it!
But honestly try not to stress too much. Girls can sense that stuff from a mile away. Just relax and let whatever's meant to happen unfold naturally.
You got this dude! I still think there's a real good chance she likes you a lot. So chin up and keep me posted on how it goes, yeah? We'll get you two lovebirds together, just wait!
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