Just got the record I was never one of those guys who go to gyms to just hit on girls. I hate guys like that and I also hate people who go don’t prioritize their workout. As if they somehow think they are going to get in shape through osmosis or some bs. It’s not a place to socialize. For me it’s a place to get a job done.
Anyway I noticed a solid 10 in the gym today. Everything about her was perfect. Beautiful body. Beautiful skin. Beautiful face. Unfortunately I was waiting to get on the squat rack and she happened to be on one of them. I sat on the artificial turf intentionally behind someone else and a rack finally became available. I didn’t want to be waiting behind her and then have her thinking I was staring her up.
Later I hit up the dumbbell rack to do my circuit. She came by a few minutes later and took a bench nearby. It took a hard mental effort not to look too long. But she gave me very subtle sideway glances in the mirror a few times.
Anyway I heard of all the horror stories of women video taping men in gyms without their consent while labeling them creeps (is it even legal to do that to a stranger?). I sure as hell don’t want to ever be even remotely close to that predicament. I actually did glance at her phone and while she was checking it a few times. Wanted to make sure she wasn’t filming a video.
But again I went to a different part of a gym and she later again was close by on a different machine. I will chalk it up as all coincidence. At the end I went on the top floor to finish with a ab plank workout.
Anyway it’s really no big deal. I didn’t take her sideways glances as positive or negative. I will only “maybe” say hello to a girl in the gym if I run into her 4-5 times and it’s obvious I am there for a legit workout.
She also looked pretty serious about her workout which is good. I was serious about mine. But it was so hard not to notice her. Should I feel guilty I couldn’t help but notice an extra moment?
She was wearing tight yoga pants and a sports bra. I am not going to say she can and can’t dress a certain way. But still I hope she isn’t the type to hypocritically complain about the men she doesn’t like noticing her. I have no idea if she’s like that of course. But a lot of women are like that.
