Girls, how many of you like a guy to tell you what to do?

[Still-alive]

And guys how do you feel about women who like men to tell them what to do?

Just curious to see how many girls feel the same as this person here.

Yes i like a dominant guy like that

No way i dislike that. I would never date a guy like that

I only like that in the bedroom. Outside the bedroom is a no no

Im a guy and id like a girl i can order around

Im a guy and don’t prefer a girl i can order around

[HelpfulWoman]

Eh, there's a boundary.

I don't mind so much in bed if thats the sort of style we've agreed on. direction can be great to save hassle of trying to guess what's wanted.

But outside of consented bedroom activities? Probably not.

[Ms_Facesitter]

I don't mind it if he's a great and respectable leader and is a master at what he does.

[Still-alive]

Whats a respectable leader to you? What qualities does he have?

[Ms_Facesitter]

A person who deserves respect, doesn't demand it. A king who has to say that he is a king is no true king.
My guy is a very good driver and navigates easily, so if we go on a trip, I do and follow whatever he needs to make is as easy as possible for us to leave home.

[Still-alive]

Well i was looking for what personality traits does a guy have that makes him deserve respect in your eyes?

[Ms_Facesitter]

That's sort of difficult for me to answer. It's just someone in society who I see as an example to follow. My example may be vastly different from the next person. A person who motivates me to be better.

[Still-alive]

Well one common one I notice a lot of women saying is a guy who just oozes confidence. Like its just evident in the way they carry themselves. Would you agree to that?

[Ms_Facesitter]

But so are the fuck boys, cheaters, liars, Confidence alone can be attractive, but that alone isn't enough to be a good partner or leader.

[Still-alive]

Alright so what else? Honesty?

[Still-alive]

Or maybe this is just one of those where you can’t describe one but you just know one when you see them?

[Ms_Facesitter]

I'll give some example of people in my life tomorrow
I'm sleepy :(

[Still-alive]

Lol aww its alright you don’t have to. Im just a curious dude. You also seem like you know exactly the type of guy you want so I thought id pick your brain a but.

Anyways get your sleep sleepy head lol

[Ms_Facesitter]

Morning so you mean a guy in general or boyfriend?

[Still-alive]

General boyfriend for context

[Ms_Facesitter]

Okay so his traits. He's outspoken, he's respectful, considerate, kind, confident (of course he's confident), not a showoff but humble.

When he says it's one thing and not another 9/10 it's because he did his research and knows what he's talking about.
When he says he'll do something, he does it. He never breaks a promise.
He doesn't play mind games, he's very clear in what he wants.
He doesn't get carried away when he's frustrated or angry, he won't let it out on his surroundings.
When he's down, he looks for a solution, he doesn't just sit there and let the problem consume him.
He owes up to mistakes.
If there is something wrong, he lets me know.

[Still-alive]

Ok thanks, that is more clear.

Although sometimes a guy might struggle a little but when he's down. Sometimes a solution isn’t so easily within grasp. I feel its more mature to admit that them to act like they do know what to do. But i will agree it shouldn’t consume him to the point where he can’t function any longer or something. So slight disagreement there.

[Ms_Facesitter]

I'm not saying he doesn't struggle. I'm just saying that if something goes wrong, he doesn't whine about it and instead looks for a solution to the problem, an alternate round, you name it. He doesn't give up. If only it was that easy that we could snap our fingers and the solution was there.

[Still-alive]

Which i can agree with. it would be at a moment like that which could potentially strengthen your relationship. not a lot of guys show that side to people. and your support could really make a difference.

[Ms_Facesitter]

He doesn't ask that much for help, so when he Does it means it's serious, and I'll be right there! :)
That's also why it's nice when he's happens to get sick or something because then I get to do everything and pamper the crap out of him without him saying no :p

[IslaTheWitch]

In the bedroom... I like strong men who are assertive with some common sense and full understanding of what we do there :D (just for the record)
being submissive is nice and exciting for me, but only to some extent. And being fully controlled isn't nice at all :) Being in the bedroom is magic done by two :)

Outside of bedroom... I really doubt there is a man who could convince me he knows everything so perfectly that I can trust him...

[petitedollbabee]

I like being ordered around in a playful way… like “hey, get your butt over here!”. And maybe the odd occasion of him telling me what to do in the bedroom… though I much prefer him showing me/grabbing me and moving me rather than telling me.

[Apple1996]

I dislike that a lot. Nobody tells me what to do

[Still-alive]

Even in bed?

[Apple1996]

Yeah even during sex. I prefer taking the lead

[Jezzzter]

Never understood why girls like dominant guys honestly. I’ve always preferred more passive guys. Nothing wrong with the other ones of course, just not my type. You do you.

[JackCarter]

It always feels good if the girl wants to know your opinion and cares about it , but it's upto her what she got to do in the end
And no I am not into ordering and domination stuffs

[Sour-rose]

Shiiii, as long he has a spine but with me and my husband, I'm the one with the brains

[lilBigPotato]

Only in the bedroom. If he is controlling we won't be together for long

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yes, I like Dominant girls.

[7Phoenix7]

I like it in the bedroom.

[mandyfire98]

Only in the bedroom