Will try to keep it short. In 2022 there was a girl that i liked. I think she knew that because i got nervous around her and she asked me why i get nervous.
i feel like she made some moves on me because she started touching my stomach, placing her hand there and keeping it there. And also pulling me towards her so that i was close to her. I was too scared to do something back. She has also asked me if i have a girlfriend, i said no.
in September 2022 i left the place. I still had feelings for her, even 1 year later. So a month ago i messages her on instagram and confessed to her that i had a crush on her.
She sent me a follow request and her reply was this:
”hey (my name). im doing great thanks. How about you? Thanks for the confession I respect that. We can be good friends i have no problem in that. What do you do now?”
I accepted her follow request and sent one back. Then i replied “im also good, ty. I now work at (company)” wbu?”
She saw the message 10 minutes later. But then i realized that she blocked me.
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Yo man that's a crazy story! Gotta admit that girl sounded into you at first from the touching and pulling you close. We all know girls don't do that unless they feeling a guy.
But then blocking you after your confession is super whack. A few things could be up:
- Maybe she just wanted attention/flirting at the time but wasn't really tryna date. You confessing made it too real.
- Possibly she met someone else since and didn't wanna lead you on or hear about old feelings.
- Could be she's just messy and likes messing with dudes heads. Blocking seemed extra tho.
- Might've gotten scared of actually having real feels for you too and panicked. Girls be emotional sometimes haha
Who knows what her deal is bro, but my advice would be forget about it. Don't waste time stressin a girl who's hot and cold like that. You'll find somebody better who won't play games!
Hit up some old friends, get back on the apps, and don't sweat the random block. Her loss, dude - you'll be just fine. Keep your head up!
Haha 😂 sounds funny
I think she has different priorities. She just checked on you, basically what are you currently doing in life and then she might be not much amussed
Resulting blocked.
Why is it funny?
I just don’t understand why she would reach out, send me a request, but then block me.
Okay, i am completely fine with her saying “we can be good friends”. over the year she might have found someone or she lost interest (assuming her touching my stomach was a sign of interest). But i am confused on why i was blocked. Did i do something wrong? Did i wait too long?
It's just Girl things
You expressed your feelings, later she might have thought to give it a try
She sends a request, she checks your pics and profile.
Maybe she then thinks that I made a mistake in making you friend again or not my type person
So blocked
My profile has 0 posts and pics
Well no idea then
I would say you did not make the best impression. You contacted her a year later, confessed and expected what? That she sits and waits for you?
Accept it and go on.