1. I've been going to a Chinese restaurant and I always sit in the same booth. 2. One time I saw a waitress ask my waitress if she could take my order and she did. Her name is Helen. 3. When I went to pay my bill Helen asked the cashier if she could check me out and she did. 4. Helen said she looks forward to seeing me again. 5. I didn't think anything of it. 6. On the next visit the exact same thing happened. 7. I thought about it and wondered if Helen was interested in me. So I decided to ask her out. 8. On the next visit Helen did the exact thing as the other two times. 9. When Helen checked me out I asked her out to a coffee shop so I can buy her a coffee or tea. I told her I wanted just to chat. 10. Helen said she is too busy. She works 6 days a week with 12-hour shifts. I told her I would like to treat her to a coffee on her day off. 11. Helen says she has too many things to do on those days. She thanked me for the offer and said goodbye. She then said she looks forward to my next visit.
I just don't understand why she is paying me so much attention and not interested in going out. Do you have any insights?
Customer service workers are meant to be very friendly and chirpy, because that's a part of what they do. She's just doing her job, and you read far too much into it. She isn't - is NOT - interested in you. Leave "Helen" alone. When she told you that she was just too busy, that was her way of politely telling you to get lost.
That's odd that she would take a table away from a waitress like that. That takes money (tip) away from her. She probably just likes you and gave you special treatment. But has no interest in dating you. Or maybe she does but is too shy to do so. The only way to know for sure is to ask her.
I also wanted to add that there are a lot of women that love to flirt with men. It's fun for them but they have no intention of dating that guy they are flirting with. Don't read too much into it and just enjoy the attention they are giving you.
Yeah yeah ok the usual female bullshit. She is too busy. can't you see how busy she is dude? She has to upload the next cute selfie on instagram so her thousands of thirsty followers can have some more masturbation material. SHE IS TOO BUSY.
She said she works 6 days a week each is a 12-hour shift. I've been wondering if she is here illegally and that's how the restaurant is able to exploit her that way.
I'm thinking you might be a good tipper? My ex was a waitress for a year or so and would make sure guests she had in the past that tipped good would get her section.
She works 12 hour shifts 6 days a week but there’s 12 more hours that she can get coffee with you on one of those days, plus she’s available on her day off minus whatever she does that day. Sorry man she’s not interested
@livingnightmare I've seen your posts. It's beyond me how you got to Xper 4 level. You're just some angry troll that trolls the posts to find ones you don't like and then berate the poster. You're a loser.
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