Dang, a passion to win a championship... It's easier said than done. I'm surprised the current coach isn't showing much of the commitment as much as you.
Usually when I was leading my football team I wasn't captain or anything I actually had to make them realize that they needed to change their perseverance. After that a lot people hated me, but what was strange is that a practice after I told everyone to keep up the baddest kid tried to fight me. I didn't fight him but I just kept dodging him, I told him to get a hold of himself and he sopped as a few other player stopped him themselves. I told the team that were not gona get anywhere if we direct our frustration at each other. Everyone lost their hate for me and did their job. We then went undefeated until I left football. (No lie)
What I'm saying is that you still can get them to side with you. You just need to either break them, or have one person in the team to help you. One person can help a lot.
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Is there one guy on the team who you get along with, who could give you the inside tip on why the guys are reacting the way they do? I guess it could be a gender politics issue, or they feel like you want to win for your own purposes and you don't actually care about the team itself. Perhaps your leadership style grates, or doesn't inspire them to rise to the challenges. Maybe they feel you are taking on more responsibility than you're entitled to, ie trying to coach rather than captain? Good luck, I hope you can turn it around. Your grandfather would be proud of your commitment regardless of the result.
PS I play soccer with mens teams and though they know I can play quite well, they all treat me like a female player, ie going a bit easier on me in tackles etc. Maybe guys don't react well to a woman who puts their commitment and hardiness to shame. I don't normally support this idea, but could you play the female card...?
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