Because not everyone has good self esteem about themselves, and in a lot of cases , they are their own worst enemy and they don’t believe that they are that attractive, so they tend to talk down about themselves over anything else. I use to have low self esteem about myself and I still do at times , if a beautiful girl was interested in me , I would automatically assume she couldn’t see right or that something was wrong with her , it wasn’t until I started getting a lot of attention from girls’ that made me realize maybe I am attractive or there is something about me that girls’ like. For the longest time I could never really put my finger on it because I had low self esteem about myself and never really assumed I was attractive. When a girl complimented something about my appearance, I would just assume she was being nice , Hearing those type of compliments was a shock to me , I had girls’ tell me they loved my eyes or my arms or my chest and my ass and my penis as well lol , so receiving those kind of compliments wasn’t a regular thing to hear from girls’ , for awhile until I realized everyone has their own preferences of what they like and don’t like , so my confidence and shyness kind of disappeared and I leaned to accept myself more , Girls’ on the other hand hear compliments all the time , especially if she is a beautiful girl , so compliments to her is a regular thing , but if she has low self esteem about herself those compliments aren’t going to sit with her well because she doesn’t believe it. I know a bunch of beautiful girls’ that don’t think they are beautiful , because they are their own worst enemy
Tbh, most women don't know they're attractive unless someone TELLS THEM so. We're brainwashed from our toddler years to think, "You're ok, but you can be better if..." and we're trained to be ready to change and shift gears between topics and communities and tasks at the flip of a coin, otherwise we won't have the skills to be... well, to be functional women.
Look at the average mom... how many things she has to juggle just to get through one standard day. Now add the SO... Now add the job... Now add the community services and the soccer snacks or class parenting or camping leader or the den mother... And she has to do it over... and over... and over again.
Why?
Bc "doing everything" is never enough. And we're expected to look and feel pretty and confident as well. It's usually THE LAST THING on a woman's mind (unless she's in her teenage years and struggling with teen angst/body image issues).
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She’s very cute and obviously he thinks so too, which is the only thing that actually matters here. Men being butthurt and angry over this is ridiculous. Men overestimate their own attractiveness and feel entitled to beautiful women. Men like you are angry that women you decide aren’t attractive enough (what’s attractive to you, the trashy bimbo porn star look?) are dating attractive men because you feel like those women are supposed to be with you. You’re pissed that they’re dating attractive men rather than men like you because now your delusions are shattered and you are forced to realize your attractiveness and market value as so many of you guys want to call it is lower than you thought.
Ohh please , look I'm the furterest thing from a frag..
She is presentable ordinary , probably has a good body and correct weight , okey but hardly glamorous..
The guy is exceptional, and can have whatever he wants , their eyes match.. but she is seriously only the correct weight that's it , nothing special other than she is youthful.
Ask the average man who does he find the most attractive in the picture above and they’re going to say the woman majority of the time. Men and women usually have kind of different standard’s when it comes to what’s considered attractive for the other gender or even themselves.
While it's true men and women find different physical traits attractive, I believe most guys would think the guy in this image is more attractive than the girl's level of attraction.
You're anon here with this? Just who is deluding whom here with this subjective judgement. You must be one of the bottom feeders, that likes to get on here and pick a fight over something as stupid as this?
Hey Analneemus, OK so you're more attracted to men than women. Rainbow pride and all that. Go for it dude. I respect your character for turning down millions to be with the man you love.
Here you are projecting again Analneemus. I'm sorry women have treated you like a short fat leper with a receding hairline since you were 15. That's probably never gonna change. But at least you have your boyfriend, right?
Simping won't get you a girl, bitch boy. I mistreat them and they fall in line, you would take a bullet to get a whiff of their asshole and that's why they despise you
Women are taught from a young age to balance this predicament. I'm front of other females she can't be too proud of herself since that puts her as snobby and narcissistic. But in front of men, she'll have the same expectation to downplay her beauty so she doesn't seem high maintenance and undatable
There are different qualifications for men and women as to what is considered attractive. For instance, big butts might be attractive on a woman but considered gross on a man.
@Bricealan He blew the little credibility he had when he just called her fat. The fact that he is anonymous here makes his opinions even less relevant.
You seem to be the one deluding yourself. Stop stating your opinion as if they are facts. Beauty is subjective.
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No it's not lmao
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Yes, it is subjective. Beauty isn’t objective. Look at the question for example. Some of these people rated this woman a 5 while the asker of the question said they find her gorgeous How would you rate this girl? ↗
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They're lying lol
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It’s called having a different opinion. They aren’t lying.
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They are, if it was subjective everyone would have a lot of options, some have a lot, others have none, most are in the middle
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It is subjective.
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Beauty is a matter of opinion. You seem to be the one who doesn’t understand the difference between opinion and fact. Opinions are subjective. Facts are objective.
Most girls who are attractive online aren't as attractive in person tbh and vice versa. this isn't always true but is much more common than people think
Those people‘s faces in that picture look digitally altered, especially the girl’s. Are they even real people? If you think a guy looks better than a girl then you’re a peter puffer
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