In your opinion, what makes a guy attractive?

[HawkPerception]

[ElenaLena]

The caring and warmth are what make him irresistible to me. Personality always comes first.. it’s what truly makes a guy attractive. The way he treats people, his kindness, confidence, sense of humor, emotional maturity, and the way he makes you feel safe and appreciated matter so much more to me than just looks. Physical attraction may catch my attention, but a good heart and a beautiful personality are what make me stay….

[TonyMetal___1986]

Never knew that i'm irresistible 😜

[ElenaLena]

@TonyMetal___1986 wdym

[TonyMetal___1986]

You said that a person who has these traits is irresistible, so i didn't knew that i'm irresistible 😄

[ElenaLena]

@TonyMetal___1986, I really respect your confidence, but it’s hard to find someone like that nowadays, as people have become really good at pretending...

[TonyMetal___1986]

You're right but what does your heart tells you about me, am i pretending or am i really like this?
Can you feel safe and comforable with me or there's something that tells you that i cannot be trusted? 😌

[HawkPerception]

@TonyMetal__1986 It's better to let others judge for themselves than to speak highly of yourself. It's better to be quiet about how good of a person you are.

Obviously, if a question on GaG is posed and asks if you think you're a good person, then feel free to express yourself, but it comes across as distasteful when you toot your horn

[TonyMetal___1986]

It's not a show off, i know myself and i'm proud of the way i am, it's true that i don't like to talk about myself to others, but when i'm asked or felt comfortable to explain the way i am to a specific person, i don't mind doing it...

I'm not doing something bad to hide it, plus i don't give so much importance about what others think of me, what matters is that i know myself well enough, whether others agrees with me or not!

[HawkPerception]

@TonyMetal__1986 👍🏼

[7Phoenix7]

Emotional intelligence, self-awareness, and a great sense of humor are big ones…

I also like confidence, kindness, and a man who makes me feel safe.

Physically, nice eyes, a good smile, and a masculine look definitely don’t hurt lol

[DishLady]

Manners and respect for others. A guy who acts with honor is the most attractive.

[NathanDavis]

in my experience... they're drawn to my personality and sense of humor, the smile and the eyes... "how you handle yourself around" and well, the athletic body too... that's what I hear more often, from the girls and more than anything, the genuineness

intrigue is first, interest happens a bit after... after they find out more

[browsingthroughthe]

@NathanDavis add a guitar 🎸 and you're a God to them Lovely Ladies out there, I'm sure - rose 🌹 like Seal 🦭

[NathanDavis]

@browsingthroughthe no way... I leave the guitars to the ones that can actually play the guitar, lol

[Zack-Bann]

From my experience: girls enjoy reading a good book more than writing one.


Which is a fancy way of saying, you need to be the one taking charge, leading the adventure without forcing anything.


That’s why most will say “confidence”
Because confidence is all about knowing what you’re doing.

[Screenwriter]

Good smile, nice face, sense of humor, good manners, kindness, in touch with his mascuinity and generosity.

[HawkPerception]

What does generosity mean to you? I hear a lot of women say this and I assume it means a man who provides in monetary value and is generous with what he provides in monetary value.

[Screenwriter]

No, not money. But generosity of spirit. A warm personality. Thoughtful. Invites you to his house ofr a home cooked meal. Spends time in your company. Things not measured in cash. Tells bad jokes! You have interesting conversations.

[HawkPerception]

I don't know if I'd call that generosity. That just sounds like having a thoughtful, fun, and engaging personality.

[Screenwriter]

Helpful. You're painting and he shows up with a good brush to help you for a few hours. Your car's in the shop, you're going to the hohspital and you need a drop off to work or the hospital. That's generous...

[HawkPerception]

Still don't think I'd call that generous. Helpful is more accurate, but I'd still say it's closer to thoughtful

[HawkPerception]

It's also kind of him

[Cidknee]

I really couldn't say. But I've seen goodlookin' guys, by opinion from girls, and in there eyes is a look of, "heh, eat yo' fukin' heart out." A touchvof arrogance and stuff. But not all. Because some people are modest and those ones you can see a touch of embarrassment as though he hates that spotlight. They are usually pretty cool.

[Karrimurray]

As a girl, I think what makes a guy attractive isn’t just his face or his money. It’s the way he carries himself, how he treats people, how he communicates, and whether his actions match his words. Confidence is attractive, but kindness and emotional maturity make me stay.

[TonyMetal___1986]

Right, but it think you'd leave such a guy for money 😄

[browsingthroughthe]

To women, they seem to mention height matters (usually they want a woman taller than the woman's own height?) open to interpretation of "how much is much" 📏

Same could be said they want a fit, healthy man of his prime (20s/30s, usually, but there's Clooney exceptions to aging) versus people who are a fine wine 🍷

[browsingthroughthe]

And of course the personality traits, women don't always want a guy who's a prick 😆

[Cidknee]

lol

😂🦧

[browsingthroughthe]

Lol I know I know 😂

[exitseven]

Competence. When a guy gets a few miles on him and learns a thing or two about the world and how it works.

[Joshydavid25]

Simply being healthily masculine in whatever form that comes. Being truly confident, having some type of drive, taking care of your physical appearance, and having some sense of humor seems to really drive women crazy.. LOL..

[InThe6ix]

Confidence so long as it doesn't cross the line into being just cocky and an overall positive personality.. and personally I've always loved a nice smile :)

[Sickworld]

I think we are all Hollywood freaks. There is no such thing as perfect guy. We all are sick

[MasterKS]

@sickworld LOL

[ThisSiteSux]

Just a huge dick. I got that and a shit personality and I fuck sluts every day

[Ironco]

Nothing, I like ladies...

Sorry, couldn't help myself... lol

[iCandice]

Caring, willing to listen, and not afraid to say no.

[mar301]

handsomeness, physique, character

[thegreenyogi]

Confidence.

[RachyRach]

Confidence.

[Malwi93]

extreme fitness

[Maria1986z]

Confident and truly nice and fit.

[blackeagle007]

not that I’m into guys, but best guess $

[Thatgirl77]

Looks

[Smileygirl2000]

Confidence