Why do most women over-value their attractiveness?

[Anonymous]

It's widely known most women find most men unattractive and even the average looking woman believes she's entitled to a 9/10 guy. She calls this being picky or not settling. Most men, generally, find at least 50 percent of women as pretty or attractive, yet women only find the top 10% of men as sexually attractive and consider it settling to go for a lesser guy. Why do women who aren't 8, 9 or 10s think that they are?

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+1 y

I understand self confidence, but I'm talking about the women overvaluing themselves, thinking that they are much more desirable than they actually are. Most guys are grounded in their attractiveness, but women who are average aren't attracted to and don't choose average men. They believe they're entitled to above average or top men.

[Whizzy83]

ALLOW ME TO EXPLAIN:


Unlike men, women constantly get validated through social media. Men who genuinely like or love them for their personality, looks or just simply looking to smash and dump them. Because of this women develop a shitty personality who then try to seek the best superior male.


Women eventually hit 30’s and start to fall apart from saggy boobs, butt and bad temper with the fertility rate dropping. They then seek any or best suitable male to get married before the windows close.


MEN PAY ATTENTION!!!


Make sure the women you pick if you pick a women in her 30’s and up that she didn’t have a promiscuous past. If a women settles for you at that age just because her walls are closing, than you are looking at a sure divorce in the near future.


WHY YOU ASK!!!


She settled for you and at the divorce rate initiated by women at 70% percent, you bet your ass she will divorce you because she was never really that deep in love with you. She semi-loved you not ever Truly Love You.


Do your research before entering the Abyss straight into the belly of the beast.


Check out a book called


The unplugged alpha


By Richard Copper


Great read

[TheAfrikan]

For most of the women out there without makeup or being attractive = to zero confidence in there own thinking. But a few are still able to embrace themselves even when without makeup or being too attractive does not degrade there confidence of being able to think they are still awesome and great.

So the main thing driving most women is over trying to be tooo attractive rather polishing up on the personality.

[itsjustlew]

I feel like the opposite is true. Women aren't attracted to men like men are to women. We’re more likely to settle for looks if they have a good personality. Or in my instance I go to the gym a lot and I’d like a guy whose the same so it’s preferences based on compatible lifestyle

[Cherry234]

Because they have self confidence or they don't believe in a 1-10 scale to determine their attractiveness. I think the 1-10 scale really is pointless sometimes because a woman who is average looking may be a 10 to man who loves her and appreciates her for who she is.

[NewYorkCity]

Because 1. they are women and 2. because they have holes that majority of men want really, REALLY badly. It is as simple as that.

[bamesjond0069]

Because very hot men will fuck them and then they think they are awesome and beautiful and amazing when really none of those hot guys have any interest in them because they are too ugly or otherwise undateable and they simply had a hard dick. I fuck lots of girls thinking she's cute but not worth dating too far below my league she has no chance. Yes i know im stealing and ruining girls for other men but thats not my problem. I have my own dating problems to deal with.

[Anonymous]

It's because of how they're treated. If they get treated like queens by men who generally have low self-confidence and put women in general on a pedestal, this can sometimes lead to women being arrogant and potentially valuing their attractiveness.

[Jintendo18]

Because none of them have a shortage of simps orbiting them waiting for the opportunity to smash.

[NHI2017]

Because they know they ain't shit,

and need a reason to get out of bed lol

[GlassTop]

Because that’s all they have to offer. If they didn’t have that, then they’d need to rely on their income and skills to attract people like men.

[Waldoe]

Usually because it's the only 'thing' they have going "for them"... they are empty vessals, no personality, no heart, no dreams or wishes... just sad lonely people that think "Good looks" matter

[noohair]

It does seem that way. Modern society is very shallow. 100,000 years ago, men were valued if they could provide food and physical safety. Now with mirrors, it is all about image.

[Anonymous]

A lot of women love playing the field until they get older and then their mindset changes when their beauty fades.

[slatyb]

That’s not widely known, it’s utter bullshit you pulled out of your ass. If you can’t get a date it’s not because you are in the bottom 90%, it’s because you are in the bottom 10%.

[Asker]

You're full of shit as usual. If you can't see what everyone else sees, then shut the f up. Nobody asked you a thing.

[slatyb]

I also can’t believe that you find half of all women attractive, or even half the women close to your age. It feels like half to you, but it’s just the half you notice, the other half are invisible to you — wrong ethnicity, heavy, single mothers, etc. This is even more likely to be true if you live in a fairly affluent area.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Attractiveness is subjective (mostly)

[Anonymous]

no wrong stats

men find 20% of women really hot
and 60% as average
the other 20% are ugly

and yes I know about the red pill

[In_Trance]

Because they have nothing else to offer

[jahaims]

Evolution, society and culture

[Anonymous]

It's called self-confidence.

[NewYorkCity]

Self confidence has two sides, realistic and unrealistic, most women in 2022 and beyond are Unrealistic. That is the reason why they get to 30+ years old and still unable to find a man for themselves.

[ewright_1]

You spelled arrogance wrong.