Why My 304 Female Friend Won’t Let Me Go?

[MiddleKeys]

My female friend sleeps with so many men but with me she is so strict with me. She told me once I’m keeping you as my friend. I asked her what I mean to her and she told me I see you has a lifelong friend. She said this in front of her friend. I see she sleeps with others but with me she so strict. I asked her once if I was her back up plan she gave me the most serious stare I’ve ever saw from her. I don't know what is up with her. Does she have a plan behind all this. I’m very skeptical if it is a negative or positive agenda.

[ChicoFromThe305]

No you are her company and her towel for when shit goes wrong and she's gotta wipe her tears, she isn't sexually attracted to you or you wouldn't been deep in her already, do yourself the favor and keep some dignity and tell her that you aren't interested in a friendship, for that you could've invited the homeless down the street to a bingo game, show some masculinity and don't let her treat you like that, if that masculinity you show doesn't change things then be even more masculine and move on, find another woman, there's women out there that appreciate good men, don't give your time to some whore bro.

[MiddleKeys]

🙏🙏🙏💯💯

[MiddleKeys]

Solid great advice.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Yep feels good being released from those friendzones prisons, personally I only give them a few strikes, if I see enough friendzone activity, I'm gone, I got a girl on strike two right now, I give em like three strikes to give them a chance of seeing the good stuff right infront of her, she goes blind on me three times strike out, go cry on someone else's shoulder lol

[MiddleKeys]

I feel you. You have a rule book.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Indeed, My own rule book.

[Anonymous]

there's three possibilities. 1) you're just not cute and that's why she's not letting you in. cos if she's a huge hoe like if you were cute you would have gotten a taste i think. if this is the case you're never going to fuck her so dont get your hopes up 2) she actually likes you and because of that doesn't want to give herself to you like that. some hoes will act all respectable with guys they like 3) she doesn't like you romantically but doesn't think your ugly/too mid, and actually likes being friends with you. she might think that having sex with you isn't the same as with other dudes and she's scared that could make stuff weird between you

[MiddleKeys]

I like how you described and the words you said, and giving me different variables on maybe why she is acting this way. When I first met her, she actually did want to date me but I couldn’t because of how I met her. It was so weird so I told her I can’t. She begged me and I told if I do because of how I met you my family would look at me. I don’t really want to say how I met her but yeah.

[MiddleKeys]

I like what you said. You give me different boxes to open and try to guess an answer.

[Tim2nice]

You’ve been friend zoned. It seems most young women like to have a friend who they can poor they verbal diarrhoea to and this one has picked you for that role. Now it’s up to you to accept that role or reject it.

[MiddleKeys]

💯% I can’t disagree with you.

[MiddleKeys]

Great advice. I can’t lie. Just plain facts.

[Tim2nice]

Sorry my friend. This used to happen a lot to me in my younger days. A lot of girls aren’t attracted to nice men. They’re attracted to bad boys who treat them like dirt beneath their shoes and dump them for the next prey. Those girls will complain about them but what do they do about it? They go and find yet another bad boy because they can’t resist the adrenaline rush. I suggest you never accept to be a shoulder for girls to cry on. It’s fine if you’re romantically interested in them and wanna hang out as good friends now and again if they’re also sympathetic of your life problems. But if you’re romantically interested in a girl she’s either your girlfriend or she’s nothing at all.

[Sonorous]

She likely wants you around for other reasons. She's obviously not physically attracted to you so just think about any benefits she's getting because of you & that's why she keeps you around.

[MiddleKeys]

I don't know about that because when I first met her she wanted to date me but I couldn’t because it was a weird way on how I met her so I told her I can’t. But I feel you and want you say is great advice no 🧢. I’ll be a fool to not comprehend or understand what you said.

[Sonorous]

Could be that she has lost attraction for you then? Or maybe it's there but not as much? Or maybe she sees you as a backup plan just as you said. A good long-term partner option. Hard to guess through the internet. Best to avoid those types of people though. Unless you're okay with the games.

[MiddleKeys]

Great answer. 🙏🙏🙏

[Sonorous]

np. Definitely stand your ground though. Women like a dude that stands his ground. Like don't let her give you a stare down & let her win it 🤣 it's more of a turn on for a lot of women when you don't put up with their bs but still show interest in them.

[Anonymous]

This is a good time to acquire some self respect.

[MiddleKeys]

💯 she just been so strict with me and I’m wondering why. Like what is her plan/what is up/etc. Like does she have a negative or positive agenda.