Why Won’t She Let Me Go?

[MiddleKeys]

I have a female friend and yesterday we had an argument. I confronted her because she has me do boyfriend stuff for her when she got a whole bunch of other guys she busy chasing. I told her in front of her friends that I’m not your back up plan. I was mad yesterday because she asked me for something and she had a whole guy with her she was with. I told her ask him for it not me. I feel she having me do boyfriend stuff cuz the other guys can’t do it for her. She just got out a relationship and I told her you just claimed 3 guys in the span of 2 weeks. Told her what is wrong with you. Also told her to go back home to her mom because she has cancer and she keep violating her mother. Many times I have told her to respect herself and said you think they will respect you. The guys she was with just looked at me when I said it. She told me she was going to block me and never speak to me again. I tried to end the friendship but a hour later she texts me trying to reestablish the friendship. Why won’t she let me go. I don’t understand what she wants from me.

Updates

6 mo

@DextroShade 😤😤😤

[Bethany22]

Maybe you're the favorite guy of the bunch, so she wants to find bonding opportunities for the two of you, such as you doing things for her. Usually men feel a deeper connection to a woman that reaches out to them for help. So if she's not asking the other guys for help, then they won't get the increased attraction towards her. If you don't want to go out with her, then clearly tell her that, and maybe she'll start targetting the other guys.

[midnightmoon05]

You are a friend zone…You are young… good time to learn about some manipulative girls. I like that you are starting to recognize her toxic behaviors and holding your values and respect.
this kind of girls only want: 1. attention 2. Use guys.
Block her. She doesn’t care about you or anyone … very low quality type.

[MiddleKeys]

🤔 facts

[MiddleKeys]

Yeah I straight said it to her in front of her face. She said I embarrassed her.

[midnightmoon05]

Proud of you.
Get rid of those who pull you down. May room for those who will love and respect you.
Welcome to gag.

[DextroShade]

You made the right call by refusing to simp any longer and telling her off. She is only contacting you so she can get more of your time, attention, and resources. If you speak to her again you should in no uncertain terms say that unless she is going to provide you with sex upfront you will not be wasting anymore of your time with her. If she won't comply, tell her bye!

[MiddleKeys]

I told no more boyfriend shit from me. Told her go ask the other guys in her phone. I told her off she don’t wanna let me go for nothing. I been cursing her out cleanly since yesterday. She still message me. It tells me she don’t want me to go.

[MiddleKeys]

She tried it with me once when I was with her and her boo whatever. She said can I get her food while me and her boyfriend went somewhere together. I just looked at her. And she asked me once in the car while she was with her boo to tie her shoes. I just looked at her.

[DextroShade]

Bro just block her on everything because she's a toxic parasite who adds no value to your life.

[midnightmoon05]

She has officially trained you to be her bitch. A drama queen… I work with 99% women…those are the nonesense some of the women get into.
Please.. block her in all areas… all we are hearing are all the ninesnense you are dealing with like kids…
Why are you not blocking her?

[nonyabeez-wax]

You did the right thing. Respect yourself and your time. Don't be anyone's backup plan or "wallet". She wants to use you, and for free at that. The opposite of a prostitute is what she wants, except she doesn't want to pay.

Cut contact. You don't need to be used by a woman who acts like a slut with these other guys, and then treats you as if you're only a wallet.

[IslaTheWitch]

You let her do it. If you want to close this friendship, just do it.

[MiddleKeys]

Understandable

[MiddleKeys]

She don’t want to do it. She don’t want to let me go for nothing. I literally tried a couple days ago.

[IslaTheWitch]

You know, you are responsible for maintaining your list of friends. There is no way someone forced you into a friendship you don't want. So be honest with yourself, that you want her close. Or cut her off.

[MiddleKeys]

Yes I’m responsible but I tried so many times to end it and she don’t wanna let go. I literally force her to go but she doesn’t want to go. I don't know if we both don’t wanna let one another go I don't know

[IslaTheWitch]

Being honest with yourself is the first step to realise what is happening. Without it, you will be in the dark. Finding excuses is easier than being in contact with your emotions.

[DizzyDesii]

She wants your attention and care. She isn't interested romantically but she knows you’re “there for her no matter what”. You gotta show her that those days are over

[MiddleKeys]

Facts

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

If you’re that certain she’s using you, why don’t you just block her?

[Anonymous]

It's not up to her to make a good decision for you. Why don't YOU respect yourself, walk away from her, and then block her on all media. You're acting like a puss and you know it. Get some balls and be a man.

[BigDog1989]

Your attention. That's what she wants. She wants to use you

[MiddleKeys]

🤔 I been thinking this. My attention because it seems the others aren’t doing it for her.

[MiddleKeys]

I’m just happy I told her right in her face and her friends. We been arguing about this for a couple days. I told her I’m not her back up.

[Sonjita]

You sound like a brat

[MiddleKeys]

🧢🧢

[DextroShade]

Are you afraid of your friend-zoned simps waking up and abandoning you like this?

[Sonjita]

@DextroShade No, I have a boyfriend.

[Sonjita]

He embarrassed her in front of everyone and now he is expecting something from her.

[DextroShade]

She was the one expecting things from him and was only embarrassed when he finally found the self-respect to tell her no. She should be embarrassed!

[Sonjita]

@DextroShade He obviously still likes her and wants to be with her but now he just made himself look like a loser

[DextroShade]

She was the one making him look and feel like a loser by asking him to go fetch things and tie her damn shoes when there was a guy who has been fucking her standing right there who should have been asked to do those things.

[MiddleKeys]

How I’m I wrong. At the end she said I embarrassed her because I told her she keep violating her mom who now has cancer/she make me do boyfriend stuff/she doesn’t respect herself. If I tell you what she does forget it. She goes from one guy to the next like quick quick like 3 days max.

[MiddleKeys]

I told her what man will respect you if he sees how easy is to get you/if he knows you bunny hop from one man to the next. I looked the boy in the face and said he won’t respect you. The boy just smiled at me. I expose what she does and the boy just looked at me. She knew she was embarrassed cuz she told me. The girl keep violating her mom. Also she has a child she doesn’t take care of. She lost custody at 13 years old (had a baby when she was 13) and I told her she has to change her life for that child.

[MiddleKeys]

I told her what man will respect you if he sees how easy is to get you/if he knows you bunny hop from one man to the next. I looked the boy in the face and said he won’t respect you. The boy just smiled at me. I expose what she does and the boy just looked at me. She knew she was embarrassed cuz she told me. The girl keep violating her mom. Also she has a child she doesn’t take care of. She lost custody at 13 years old (had a baby when she was 13) and I told her she has to change her life for that child. At least fight for her by changing ya life.

[DextroShade]

Bro, this bitch is straight up trash! You should not waste another moment of your time even thinking about her.

[shades777]

because your not Django unchained

[MiddleKeys]

I don't know what you mean 😂😂 but today I been spazzing out on her telling her I’m not her back up plan. 😤😤😤😤😤😤 She don’t wanna let me go for nothing.

[In_Trance]

Probably for the same reason you won't let her go

[MiddleKeys]

I don’t get it. Elaborate cuz I’m clueless.

[Tstrbrainer]

Just say no friends without pussy