Wont let me see her phone

[stadiumstatus2]

alright so I have been dating this girl for three months.

after about a month I ask to see her phone, she doesn't let me. later that night I asked why and she just said she doesn't like people seeing her stuff.

we hung out after that and I asked to see it again and she says no.i talked to her about it and she said she promises she will let me see it next time I ask

we hang out again at a party and I ask to see her phone and she says she left it at home, so I believe her but when I leave (shes sleeping over the girls house) I texted her and said I had fun that night.she texts me back five minutes later saying she did too (she never went home)

she claims she's not hiding anything

but I don't know

Updates

+1 y

i guess you girls are right, thanks

i won't ask to see her phone again

[gcnatipunk]

don't ask for her phone. you're showing her insecurity. you know even if she's still your girlfriend that don't mean she doesn't get to have privacy. but if you think there's something going on, you need to talk to her and tell her what you think be honest and maybe she'll give you a solution there. But don't ask for her phone it makes you look like your desperate and it could get to the point that she will get tired and she'll break up with you. So talk to her and good luck.

[alicakes]

okay I know I don't like to show my phone because its my personal conversations with people.

she probably has nothing to hide but maybe her bff was telling her something top secret and its still on her phone. my boyfriend got mad at me for not showing him but that was because of secrets that were not mine to tell.

if she says she's not hiding anything give her the benefit of the doubt until something else makes you question her

[loveWANTED]

well if you really care about this girl, then let it go

she probably has nothing to hide and your in her personal space there are a lot of people who have there lives on there phone, I know I do! but just don't worried about little things like that cause that will create trust issues, and just starting a relationship that's not good.

[likeomgxitsmandi]

Haha, this sounds so familiar. Most people don't let other people see their phones, because of text messages on them and pictures. Most people just don't want other's to see their personal conversations. Just let it go, though. She could be hiding something but maybe not. You have to have trust in her, man. Just don't worry about that. Ha, because she'll most likely not ever let you see her phone.