Guys, are girls in their early 20s immature unlike women in their upper 20s?

[Akam93]

As in to immature to handle a period on a date, can't tell you the truth, etc.

[ProbablyClueless]

Age doesn't seem to have much to do with immaturity, honestly. It's more jarring when you see a woman in her late twenties acting like a teenager though.

[RavVid]

It varies a lot. Some early 20's girls can be child like while others are sophisticated. By 24/25 most girls are pretty mature.

[D_Bone_Steak]

MHO's already picked, but yeah... it depends on the woman, not her age. Immaturity tends to be more like a general attitude rather than if she's been to college or have life experience. An immature 20 year old will give you an immature 40 year old.

That general attitude or set ways of behavior doesn't change. It might fluctuate depending on circumstances, but it returns to the set mode. I forget what it's called... let me look this up.

The hedonic treadmill. The actual theory is more about their set mode of happiness, but I twist it a bit and say it also applies to the set mode of attitude.

A prissy little bitch is always going to be a prissy little bitch deep down inside even if she is currently humbled. Anything is true on a long enough timeline, but you wouldn't have to wait very long if you observe closely... it's there, it never left.

[HawkPerception]

I've talked to a few 19 year olds on dating apps and for the most part... yes they're extremely immature to the point it's a very big turn off. Now I've adjusted my dating range from about 22 to 35, although 35 year olds wouldn't date me because of where I am in life currently.

[Flatmanlewis]

Really depends on the person. Sure, age often has a correlation to maturity but not always. I’ve known women in their early to mid-20s that were very mature. I know women well into their 30’s who are unbelievably immature and seem to make bad decisions as a pattern.

[razelove]

Depends on the woman, some stop mentally at disney fantasies and stay there into their 30's. Some know what they have and where they want to go right from the get go. I could honestly care less as long as she pays attention to me when we're together, and is attractive.

I'm not taking care of anyone other than my kids, so it's a non-issue whether she sinks or swims when there is no plan to have kids together.

[HighValue]

No. Actually some are better because they haven't made lots of bad decisions in life yet so they are less stressed out, more open, and not trying to justify their bad decisions. It makes them easier to talk to. Of course not always, but that has been the case the majority of the time with in person experience.

[Anonymous]

Eh. I find age doesn't matter a ton on this. It's really more down to temperment and life experience. I've found that girls with a strong moral background (e. g., some religion versus atheist + leftist) and girls who actually do things in the world (e. g., a medical student or a kindergarten teacher vs. a grievance studies "researcher", a social justice activist, or a member of a corporate HR departments DEI team) tend to be much more mature.

[aceleon]

yes, the idea of woman matures earlier than guys is false, it is only true in middle school after that it is the opposite

[Surely]

I would say yes. Young people in their early twenties feel that they are super human and can do as they please. Unfortunately, more kill a lot of brain cells in the bar rooms rather than planning for their future.

[systemsareyo]

Some can be in different ways. Other ways, they can all be, regardless of early 20s or late 20s. I'm actually mature as a guy now at 29 than I was even at 27 or 24. I'm very glad I grew up

[DarkWinterNights]

I’ve found a lot of women to be basically the same maturity-wise from their late teens through their 20’s.

[Joshydavid25]

Generally... Yeah.. Pretty immature.. As immature as they claim the guys are..

[Wood3nWhal3]

This is accurate. Though some more than others.

[Joshydavid25]

@Wood3nWhal3 Most definitely..

[Wood3nWhal3]

Though I've heard that having sex with older guys (like us) actually makes them more mature, it's crazy

[Joshydavid25]

@Wood3nWhal3 Yeah that is kinda crazy.. Maybe they're ingesting the little bit of wisdom we gained over the years.. Lmao..

[Kpersaud2]

Yes and no.


Age does not matter. It’s all about her mind set, ambition, and work ethic.

[pass_the_celery98]

Girls in their mid to late 20s haven't changed much either tbh.

[dolemite58]

only slightly, girls in their late 20’s are usually still very immature, all that partying in their college years doesn’t magically give them wisdom 😂

[RoronoaZoro8]

Not generally. Some women are immature and some are not.

[syncheart]

I think older women are more experienced, and know more what they are doing.

[Staximus]

They are still getting out of bird brain mode and figuring out their life

[Anonymous]

The difference is not much, serious women are always serious, childish women remain childish at 30 years old. I don't like women who laugh all the time, I only like young and serious women.

[Gibbie83]

I don't think so. It all depends how they were raised

[NathanDavis]

it is not really about age... no

[Peter_Penetrator]

Age plus mentality, not all are equal.

[SolitarySolace]

All women are immature

[LiamJHayden]

In general, they tend to be that way.

[pickles77]

They can be but not always

[Guido]

Too long ago to remember.

[thor_erikson]

women in their late 20s are too old to date.