Is it normal or weird?

[Rostyhe]

I'm going to give a shy girl I like present on Saint Nicholas Day and then right away ask her if she would like to go out with me (for the first time - usually we only talk in the company or massaging about formal issues). Is it would be shocking for her?

[_Maya_]

Okay so first thing is don't date coworkers. Never turns out how you expect it to. Plus if she doesn't have the same feelings that you do then guess what? Stuff is going to get real weird at work. That's good for no one. Second thing is yeah she is going to be shocked and you don't know if it is going to be in a good or bad way. That sort of goes back to my initial point and why it isn't a good idea. Just think if the best outcome happens and she likes you. You date and one day get into a huge fight. How is work going to be after that?

[Rostyhe]

We are students now. But yeah, as well I think it's kind of could ruin our friendship. And ended up with thought that I should not keep it inside. Because I think she actually may like me as well.

[_Maya_]

I saw the word company and thought it was work. But yeah that's the risk you run is if she doesn't feel the same it could ruin the friendship. It might not though.

[DreamLife7]

That's sexual harrassment. Hopefully you get terminated

[Rostyhe]

Can you explain what exactly offensive in this, please?

[RedInnocent68]

Weird. A bit like a bribe. Give the present. She’ll get the idea… 😉

[Rostyhe]

Hahah, I see your point. So maybe ask her out next day after, hmm?

[Tharithi]

Why do u like her

[Rostyhe]

She's a great person and looks good to me. But most of all like to interact with her. I'm still feel her sympathy, although she seems more closed to me. I guess it might be a sigh to ask for a date.

[Tharithi]

Ohhh how do u both look

[Rostyhe]

I believe great. I don't know what she thinks about (she is very private on her deep thoughts), but I already compliment her haircut twice. First time she said it could have been ruined very easily. And second time how nice she looks with this haircut, she was thankful. And after that she had this haircut next three days in row.

[Tharithi]

I means how u both look. Height features? Clothing?

[Rostyhe]

I'm a bit taller, about 5-10 cm. Both dressed casually, in hot weather she sometimes wears dresses.

[Tharithi]

What’s your height and her height? How u both look

[In_Trance]

Weird

[Rostyhe]

Damn