We’re you hurt by your peers? how did you cope with it?

[myabe123]

As an adult I am against bullying.
In middle school I was a bully but later got it back tenfold in college. It was a nightmare. it was two girls from high school who weee former friends (didn’t even know each other) grace and kaitlyn. And everyone just took there side. Im actually pretty sure it was jealousy from both of them. Im not a very jealous person so I don’t understand it at all… I mean yeah theirs that one girl that I wish I can be liked as much as but I wouldn’t intentionally harm her…

[smne35]

I was never into sports, was initially learning would always have at least 3 or 4 big encyclopedias with me everywhere I went, when I was in 5 grade which I was really supposed to be in 2 grade got skipped, I would sit read my encyclopedias during break, I happen to be by basket ball courts and that day they told me I'm on the team, I informed them if you want to win don't put me on your team I can't play this game, they ignored me lost the game and after school, was waiting for me was 4 of them but than myself, and without a word they jumped me and, ran off my big mouth I yelled you better run was just about to kick your assess, lol this went on for a week, then I had an idea, as usual they were waiting on me after school but before they could hit me I yelled wait told them a joke and they laughed, so I told another one they feel out laughing and I took of other way as they did, but I just couldn' keep my mouth shut, I yelled as I took off suckers, next day they were waiting for me so I told some dirty jokes, after I explaine what it was about they got it wanted to hear more so I told more they laughed I took off again yelling dumb assess, but after a few days I got tired of running, so I decided time to end it, I waited for them when they were alone and I snuck up behind them and hit them in the head one at a time when I saw that t they were alone, with my books, jumped on them and start hitting them non stop, that pissed them off but I didn't care I was pissed and was ready for what ever revenge they had in mind but thank God I was transferred to Junior high next day and that was end of my being bullied, had a great time in high school looked like first grader at 10 but was easy after that lonely at times but that's life what do you do,, sorry about the length of response!

[Al_Musafir]

We had a group in the middle school. One of them went too far using his foul mouth and I shut him. He got bitter then started telling everyone behind my back that how I'm the real backstabber. He continued till the high school. From avoiding me and abandoning me, to bullying me on daily basis, they all changed. The more I ignored them with the hope of them growing out of it, the worse they kept getting. It continued till months till I finally decided to call them all out and ask them what they want. They didn't expect me to be doing so and many of them chickened out. One of them said that he wanted to fight. I was too tired at that point to reason with him but i agreed to fight him. They all came at once and told them that none of this should pass a day longer. Somehow all of them backed off saying that 'we don't even want to fight you'. This was the first time anything of that sort had happened to me and I learnt many things along the way. Years later, few of them came asking for forgiveness. I forgave them but I haven't forgotten anything.

[AmeerX]

I was lonely in school. Bullying was non existent in School. We had fights sometimes. Bullying in university was a problem. In Schools, teachers were the only bullies.

I was hurt but not because of physical harm

[muscles_glasses]

I wasn't bullied in school but my class year (grade 2 to grade 12) was terrible. All twelve years I went through with the same bunch of guys and gals. The guys because I can't speak to the gals werent nice to me or to anyone.

[love_conquers_lust]

Nope. I stopped others from hurting those who couldn't defend themselves.

[OddBeMe]

Perhaps I was hurt so deeply that I cut off all emotion and became this sociopath I am now….(shrugs)

[Jmmmfi4]

I can't STAND BULLYING

[eagle1951]

in my days we just blew them off and when on wish our lifes

[Nahid1707]

i agree with you.☺️💕

[BloodCursedDeviant]

…are you okay?