Should a married woman be putting provocative pictures on social media?

[Anonymous]

So i have this girl that I’ve known since elementary school. She’s a nice, bubbly, outgoing girl. Who has always been fit and attractive. In high school and college she started posting pictures of her wearing scantily clad clothing. Now i know that a lot of girls do that and high school / college is kind of a wild time. Fast forward and she’s been married for a few years. Yet she still posts pictures of this nature. Do you guys think that is wrong? What are your opinions on the matter?

picture is not of her

Yes it’s wrong

No it’s not wrong

Updates

4 mo

I feel like i need to clarify by what i mean as “provocative pictures.”

One picture has her in a hot tub. She and another woman are in bikinis and they are groping each other.

Another picture is her on vacation, i guess. She’s in a bikini on the beach. She’s on all fours, on the sand, facing the camera. She’s got her butt high in the air.
facing the ocean as she is smiling at the camera.

She’s got others like this. So, not your typical pictures. In my opinion.

[antelope51]

Married or not, she's her own woman, not property, and can choose to present herself how she'd like. I mean, how >I< feel about the attention-seeking is on me, but if she's proud of her body or feels a narcissistic need for people to drool over her, that's her prerogative. But even before she was married, she was not posting photos as an invitation to rape her. So if you have a problem with her photos, adjust your feed settings so she doesn't come up. But it's solidly your issue. I don't have to like what people/friends post to respect their right to post it, and if I'm bothered, I have the right to mute it, block it, or not look.

[LazerBean]

No it not right, but any man who marries a girl who has been doing that and expects her to magically change after marriage has to be autistic.

[Asker]

I agree, some guys like that though. Which is weird to me.

[sir_reginald]

i think a woman has to be conscious of how she wears, more so after marriage. its not about freedom or feminism, it's about how you present yourself to the public eye. its about respecting yourself as a woman. i think its disrespectful to dress in a certain way when a woman has a partner. she shouldn't want to show herself to anyone but her partner. if a husband/boyfriend is alright with his girl showing off that way, then he's not very respectful of her or of himself too. yet at the same time if a woman wants to dress a certain way and post it, i dont think anyone has the right to judge her as well because it's her body. but her actions and the consequences after are also on her.

[emeraldsaphire]

I mean it depends on the relationship, and what you consider "procreative" Though personally I'd prefer a partner who lets me do this like my ex did

[Asker]

What did you do that your ex was ok with?

So there are the two examples in the update i shared. But another example is her wearing a tube top. Where her bra is poking out of the bottom. She’s wearing short jean shorts and pulling her thong out. Now the girls with her are all doing the same. But that’s pretty wild, right?

[emeraldsaphire]

i mean i did a bit more lol, but yeah if the partner isn't comfortable it should stop in my opinion

[Asker]

What did you do?

[Nikki1989]

Hopefully she isn't with a man that is that insecure to see a problem with it.

[Kelly6]

it depends on relationship

if husband is ok with it then its ok.

to me i dont see anything wrong