I'm more compatible with women who are a bit more on the modest and conservative side as far as how they present themselves and speak (I'm similar and don't even use very sexual language and have no interest in sexting, for example). I prefer to keep sexuality more towards the private side and so I was most interested in women who think the same way (my wife thinks the same way).
Yet I don't really judge people strongly for actions that aren't hurting anyone. So I don't really think much of it except that such a woman isn't my type but I'm guessing she is her husband's type.
So, it depends
We all like to feel beautiful and handsome right?
A woman can post these photos and still not be a whore, slut, or ho.
Also, be totally loyal to her partner.
But, it just feels good to post what you feel like to be attractive photos of yourself online and get positive attention.
I think it’s overall fine, all things considered.
Can it become unhealthy or bad? Yes
Does it have to be? No
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Hi Annabananna
The woman in the picture is in a very suggestive pose. If my girlfriend/wife insists in posting such a photo on social media and she refuses my request not to, thats where i end all relations with her.
Why? Its because
I am pretty sure majority of men seeing that picture will defenitely picture her naked in their minds thats the least of it some may even fantasise fking her. Dear Women before calling me a pervert let me tell you this, this is what every guy thinks including your father son brother whoever male. im sorry but thats the reality.
Now why bfs or husbands refuse to let their SO post such pics. Its because a man cannot stand the idea of another man fantasising about their SO. I know because i will beat the soul out of such a guy if i come to know. Thats why husbands get angry at women like that.
Will every guy put up a fight? Maybe No.
I understand some people like to show off their body because its beautiful. But when you are in a relationship respect the emotions of each other.
I can't say anything on behalf of women but i believe they also won't like the idea of their men fkng other women
As a girl, I think more posts are “deemed” sexy than should be. If a woman is not fit, lots of people think it’s not sexy, but the same photo on a fit girl is. A woman in a bikini is almost always more sexualized than a man in swim trunks, no shirt. So it’s tough to actually say what’s sexy. Beyond that, it depends on what the married couple wants. Personally all of my married friends have freedom to post what they want/do what they want etc cause they align with the belief that your spouse doesn’t own your body/content. Plus it’s no different than going to the beach in a bikini where people could actually interact/you could cheat. So I think it should be fine for social media
To be honest with you is really none of my business if somebody's going to post it I'm going to look at it LOL that's for sure or if somebody sends it to me that's I'm going to look at it that's for sure. I think there's a reason behind everything that people do and it's the same time it's nobody else's business what other people do so I think if a person wants to do that that's up to them there's nothing wrong with it and I'm not going to judge anybody because of what they might be doing or what they might not be doing because they know the whole reason I'm not going to judge them or assume I do know the reason so I let it go is people will be people and that's just the way it is they have that right to do whatever they want to do that's why we've all been brought up and that's the only fair thing to say I'm not going to judge anybody for anyting
She shouldn’t be married , she is seeking attention and validation from others , she is not loyal to her husband cuz she is opening doors to allow other potential interests to enter into her life unless she is being paid for it and it’s part of her job as a model , but if she isn’t getting paid then she is trying to get laid , She needs God in her life and to understand what it means to be married , it’s girls like this that wonder why they end up divorced and single , when someone is in a committed relationship and still seeking validation and attention from others , then they shouldn’t be in a relationship period , because they are only thinking of themselves by their selfish behavior , No guy wants to marry a girl that isn’t loyal to him , there would be no point in getting married period , if you can’t sacrifice for your partner like they expect them to sacrifice for you , it will not work , they are just wasting their time by allowing fire to enter into the relationship.
It’s not something that I would do, but I think there are some couples who pride themselves in being unabashedly public with my looks. I don’t have a problem with it, it’s just not something I would do and I think my husband appreciates that. He certainly doesn’t do anything of that nature either. I don’t think there’s any shame in a significant other or spouse professing admiration for their better half on any front
For one thing, it's none of my business. But one thing is, if her SO is okay with it, then I definitly don't care. But that being said, lots of pictures today are considered sexy or revealing even when it isn't. Like some dude once came at me just for posting fully clothed pictures online, saying I was posting stuff for guys to jerk off too, and I wasn't. But then he turned around later on and wanted me to return his sexual advances even though he knew I was married, I blocked him. 🚫
As long as she’s posting it of her own volition I’m ok with it. But I’ve heard of some disturbing cases where husbands have been the ones to make their wives post explicit content on social media for money which I find exploitative.
If you look for cases of women who have been loyal to 1 guy for ages you won't find them posing in pics like in your example - even if they're fine as hell. It's the women who are a.) searching for a new man, b.) can't keep a man or both who do this. Okay, we can add c.) professional model/actress but they will often be in situation a & b also.
Marriage has been viewed universally among all cultures as a transaction between a man's resources and a woman's sexual exclusivity. Posting revealing pictures on social media is basically an advertisement for something that has been promised to the husband.
They can do what they want. Good looking women get attention everywhere. They can wear a trash bag to Target at 9 am and they’ll get looked at and hit on. There is no hiding your lady from other men. It cannot be done.
A big no and if i was married, my housewife would never post such things because i won't be with a girl who thinks that it's okay to show her body in such bikinis and for sure she knows that she ain't allowed to do such things, her body will be only mine...
If I don't agree with it, then I will leave her but for that to happen you have to be married in first place and I will never do that for anyone. There is nothing for me in it, like situation you mentioned,
She can become greatest slut in history but according to court and modern woke culture its justified and she can do it without any consequences but I will lose half of my earnings with kids. If I cheat court and law with slander me to death and even there is possibility of jail.
Why is she looking for other men to validate her if she picked her husband? For her to post her body only only implies that she's for everybody. I would never trust my wife after doing something like that, she belongs to the streets. Then again, any woman wanting a relationship with me won't even have social media
Not a issue. If a woman wants to show off her body then more power to her. Just because she is in a relationship doesn't mean she can't show off her body
My husband and I actually like it on certain platforms. Basically instagram and snapchat are the platforms we use for our friends instead of familly so there I go pretty all out. Back before we deleted Facebook we kept things very conservative there.
Well who doesn't wanna drop a sexy pic on the internet. Hopefully for their reasoning, not for attention. that shi is getting shallow now a days. And men are kinda not liking it? Or not falling for it?
I have no issues with it, it's probably a little bit of a turn on for them, they like the attention. Their spouse is probably don't mind it too terribly much either because if she gets excited over taking pics, he's going to benefit
It depends if they look good. Like, mostly after marriage and kids people start looking less better. They start putting less efforts into maintaining themselves, and into each other, which would explain why she wants another man's attention in the first place!
No thank you… Crass rather than Class. And kids know so much more about AI…And can track and follow their parents habits better than parents manage kids
I have zero respect for them and I find their husbands to be weak.
The husbands should call this sheeet out and if they just keep doing it then just divorce them.
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