Girls, would you be upset if a guy you liked liked your friend?

[Anonymous]

[HappyWoman34]

No. I’d go and find someone else who liked me that I liked.

[Asker]

Would you mind your friend going out with him?

[HappyWoman34]

I’ve got to be honest, that’s never happened to me before. But honestly, I think I’d be a bit jealous, at first, id cut him off and stay friends with her

[HappyWoman34]

I’m a woman who’s liked by the guy that my ex friend likes.

[Asker]

You two had a falling out?
These two women who are best friends like me but I only like one of them back.

[HappyWoman34]

Yeah. In my scenario, I’m the one that’s liked. Yes, she got jealous.

[HappyWoman34]

You don’t owe the other woman your time or body, the one who doesn’t interest you.

[HappyWoman34]

Are they both friends of yours? My advice to you is to pursue a relationship with the woman who interests you.

[HappyWoman34]

No matter what you or the favoured one do or don’t do, the favoured one will always be the bad guy to the other one. She probably already is.

[HappyWoman34]

But that’s not your or the favoured one’s issue.

[Asker]

Yes, both friends of mine. I asked the one I like out, they tell each other everything so the other lady probably already knows.

[HappyWoman34]

Probably. I haven’t told the other lady that I was friends with, but I was asked out, too.

[HappyWoman34]

He’s also on a dating site, to pick up girls.

[HappyWoman34]

Haven’t told her, as we’re not friends anymore and it wouldn’t help me get her friendship back

[Asker]

So you think the other lady will see me as the bad guy?

[HappyWoman34]

No, she’ll see her favoured friend as the bad guy.

[HappyWoman34]

She’ll tell herself that if her friend wasn’t in the way, she’d have a fair shot with you.

[HappyWoman34]

Which isn’t true.

[Nikki1989]

No, not at all.