Would you get upset if you found out your guy friend secretly liked you?

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Summeroflove · Accepted Answer

Well I’m not into guys so I wouldn’t be into him. But regardless of how you feel back just know that it’s normal for people to catch feelings I will say sometimes it can be one sided. But be kind but honest if you’re not into him and maybe even try to set him up with someone. That or if you’re honest you can entertain the idea just to see where it goes and if it doesn’t work it doesn’t work.

If you are into him I don’t know if you’re asking the question hypothetically or if this is a situation you’re in. Then I would say see where it goes. A lot of times those relationships are stronger.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I'd be more upset at you thinking you should have control over someone else's feelings. it's not like he lied about being gay in order to get you to feel comfortable changing clothes in front of him... right? right?

Abbycado · Accepted Answer

No, I wouldn't get mad. I mean, sometimes you just can't help who you like and the feelings that come with it. If he didn't act on it, I would just chalk it up to "what can I do?".

mandyfire98 · Accepted Answer

I wouldn't get upset but a conversation would have to definitely happen between us.

JohnnyB123321 · Answer

I’ll say that no girl would need to find that out about me. I’ll be open and communicate that. I do have feelings for a good friend and she’s now married. She was with the guy when we all met. They have had some very serious up’s and downs and one time she laughed and said that she and I should be a couple. I stopped her and told her that if things ever didn’t pan out for them I’d like to explore us. We had a little block of time when they were fighting bad that we stepped a little over the line but I have always respected her decisions. But I’d also be a little scared to be be with her because she got caught cheating with a different friend of hers and I’d say what happened between us was for sure cheating. I don’t trust cheaters, especially when it’s multiple people and multiple times. And she had some other guy friends that she seemed a little too close to at times too.

coxoabean · Answer

No I wouldn't I wish my guy friend liked me. Well, I don't know if he does, but if he does I wish he told me lol

thatgirl2000 · Answer

lol. no. in fact i know that most men can't be just friends. If he shows you any attention chances are he's thought about sleeping with you. I wouldn't be upset.

Sea_Breeze16 · Answer

That's reason why I don't make friendship with guys... I don't believe in friendship between boy and girl

Jjmetalchick · Answer

It depends on which friend. If I think of the friend is more of a brother hell yeah.

Nik1hil · Answer

Nope , I wouldn't be Mad.. I will certainly not let him hit it!..  Because I am Straight, but sure I wouldn't be mad and still be friends, just keep my distance in proximity!..

AlinaJanowska18 · Answer

Yes , I would be. But if you agree for friendship with male... there are always opportunity that at some moment he will fall in love with you... so I try be not close with my male friends , classes etc.

lisaleib · Answer

I would be secretly complimented but maybe shy

MsShy87 · Answer

If it was a certain one, I'd be happy because the feeling is mutual.

OneViewpoint · Answer

So you get upset when you find out your friends like you? And I suppose you're overjoyed when you find out your friends despise you? What planet are you from?

Anonymous · Answer

That reason is the main reason I don’t really trust when guys say I want to be your friend. It’s annoying

ivyjuniper21 · Answer

No, id just gently remind him we're just friends, and sit on his lap, and smile at him

glennos89 · Answer

No not really upset but it makes things a lot more difficult

Sinthia99 · Answer

Not upset. We would need to talk about it though.

Cute_User513 · Answer

yes, especially sense I’m in a committed relationship already

KostasKouvalis · Answer

That's happened to ME. Those girls are so stupid. They should be flattered

theskyrider · Answer

There's no reason to be upset. How did you handle it when you were in that situation?

jimbob70 · Answer

Hi your thoughts and feelings for older men

PinkSchmetterling · Answer

Nah I would think it’s sweet

MicahRaine · Answer

Yes because they all know I'm straight lol

Jennz6 · Answer

No, not really a problem

Kelly6 · Answer

@whitneysnow no, why would I?

Juxtapose · Answer

No, especially if they're a femboy 😍

Circushowcowboy · Answer

No but I’d be caught off guard

_Jenny_ · Answer

@whitneysnow No why would I be upset

WilliamPamer446 · Answer

Yes id friend zone him further

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

We wouldn't be friends anymore

Wise4myage · Answer

No, not all.

Bykurs10 · Answer

BEN love to women

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