I don't know if my crush hates me or not?

[Anonymous]

11th grade, teacher asked if he got my name right, i nodded my head and said yeah but was a bit trembly so i nodded a third time. i looked next to me and saw my crush & she was staring at me but looked angry. i think she has rbf but she looked angry for this. After, i was looking at my phone and when i look up, i see her looking at my direction then quickly looks away. Later our class switched to different class and i notice how she sat at the table next to my mines

we then did science lab. i had to work with my crush, her friend & a guy. the guy asked what was new teachers name. My crush friend replied and i told her what i think teachers name is. the 2 girls started talking about the teachers name & saying how it’s werid and then did this big smile at me, it seemed staged. i said “yeah” while looking away & smiling, they stare and smile at me the whole lab. Then notice my crush staring at me at the corner of her eye and wouldn’t look away when i stared back also saw her pointing her camera at me

Once i accidentally stared at her friend during lunch and quickly looked away when her friend saw me. Next day they were staring at me to see if i was looking at them. i think after this my crush could of hated me possibly cuz i heard her say “please don’t put him in our group” for the next lab.

Now 12 grade &we share class again She chose to sit at the table (tables are big square that 6 people can sit at) next to mines but she chose a seat where her back is faced towards my table. i overheard her saying why isn’t he looking over here. teacher wanted us to look at peoples art&I was staring down at someone’s art but notice in my perphial, her & her friend standing across the table and staring at me.(ran out of space) here is a image of the rest

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oh and her friends complimented my art work once by saying “that is fire” but I don't know if it was sarcasm

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another thing i forgot She also looked at my direction a couple times recently but she looked away normally

[Oliverlogan263]

It's hard to say for sure if she hates you or not based on all that. Girls can be confusing sometimes! A few thoughts:

- The way she was staring at you when you nodded to the teacher sounds like she might have just thought you looked funny/weird in that moment. Wouldn't read too much into that.

- Sitting at the table next to yours could just be coincidence, or she might want to be close by if she likes you. Back facing isn't a great sign though.

- Smiling and staring during lab is a good sign - sounds like she was definitely paying attention to you!

- Her saying "please don't put him in our group" could be because she likes you and didn't want to do awkward lab work together. Or she could really not like you. Tough to say for sure.

- Her friend staring and saying something when you looked could mean she was telling your crush you looked. Or that you shouldn't look!

Overall it's a mixed bag of signals. If you like her, I'd say try smiling and making eye contact with her in class to see how she reacts. Maybe even try starting a casual conversation to get a better read. Don't worry too much about overanalyzing little things - just put yourself out there a bit and see how it goes! Easier said than done, I know, but you'll never know if you don't try.

[Asker]

how should i start the convo like what should i say

[Oliverlogan263]

Aight man, since you guys gotta class together that's a good opportunity to start a convo. Here's some ideas on what you could say to break the ice:

- Comment on the lesson/project you're working on. Like "Yo this assignment is kinda confusing, you got any tips?" That's a chill way to start talking about school stuff.

- Compliment her art again if you see her working on it. "Hey I just wanted to say again, that piece you did the other day was seriously sick." Flattery never hurts!

- Crack a joke if something funny happens. Like if the teacher says something ridiculous just be like "Did Mrs. Smith really just say that?" And laugh.

- Ask an open-ended question. "So what other classes are you taking this semester?" Get her talking about herself a bit.

- Sit near her if there's an open seat. Then you got an excuse to start chatting easy.

Don't overthink it, just say what's natural. The key is keeping it light and not putting pressure on either of you, ya feel me? Show you're cool to kick it and see where the vibe takes you. You got this bro, just be yourself!