Does my crush hate me?

[Mel2021]

I’ve recently started a new job and have a little crush on my male colleague who was being very nice and friendly towards me as well as keen to talk to me asking me questions about my personal life such as; how my evening would go and weekend but recently he’s been cold and distant and doesn’t appear interested in taking to me.

I was upset the other day when I made a few mistakes In work and apologised to him if I came across as rude which he understood but he’s started treating me differently now.

Does he not like me anymore?

[anmari2001]

maybe something else is going on in his life that has nothing to do with you or maybe he didn't like you like that in a first place but was nice but so what, try talk with him, if he keep being distant. let him be

[Mel2021]

I did talked to him and he said he has just been feeling tired and recovering from his sickness but I don’t know if it’s the truth or not but maybe I’m looking into things too much?

[anmari2001]

Yeah, no reason to doubt what he said, just continue as normal and time will show

[Mel2021]

Ah ok thank you! That makes me feel better! :)

[DaveToo]

He might be holding back to see if you are batshit crazy, or just really frustrated when you make mistakes.

[DaveToo]

Thanks for the MHO!

[Vikkrram]

Maybe he is disturbed by some personal reasons. Who Knows... try to know his problem if you can.

[Mel2021]

I did ask and apologised again on a audio call but he just said he has bee tired today and getting over his sickness as he has a bad cold but I don’t know if it’s the truth or not I guess

[Vikkrram]

Why you apologised it's not ur fault... And if he is telling that beleive it... After sometime he will give u attention again... when everything would be fine...

[Mel2021]

Thank you! I feel a bit better now :)

[mark000h]

He probably still does. Here's something, ASK HIM out for coffee.

[noohair]

Work place romance is risky. A man can ruin his career with one slip.