How common is it for a girl to feel unsafe?

[Passerby2]

Common

Not common

Rare

[WhiteSteve]

I think it’s pretty common. A lot of creeps and dangerous men up to no good out there. I bought my little cousin pepper spray for her keychain when she left for college, and I told her I won’t turn my ringer off for the next four years and to call me if she’s ever in a sketchy situation, any hour of the day or night.

As dudes, I feel like we should be considerate of it as well. If it’s just me walking behind some woman on the sidewalk at night, I’ll go out of my way to cross the street and let her have some space. A couple times I’ve had to be sprinting somewhere, and I always announce myself to women like “I just gotta blaze past you real quick, ladies, don’t be alarmed”, so they don’t get frightened by running footsteps.

I don’t know, maybe it’s overkill, but I’d rather overdo it than under-do it and give some poor woman a scare.

[verylovelyguy]

i enjoy intimidating girls in public. i love bluffing with all that masculinity

[tremendousfern]

Women will tell you they feel unsafe all the time, but you shouldn't ever listen to what a woman says about anything because their actions speak louder than their words. The truth is that women are very safe in modern societies which is why they act out the way they do.

If women really, truly felt unsafe they would be behaving much differently. If you don't believe me, see for yourself. See how women behave in times of crisis and compare it to the outrageous performances they put on to get attention these days. It's night and day.

[butterly248]

That's not true. The reports of being followed, attacked etc. Have risen!

[tremendousfern]

@butterly248 I have no doubt that things are getting more dangerous and probably will continue to do so, but first world countries are still mostly very safe to live in - which is why women are still mostly wacko feminists who continue to naively espouse politics that only make living more unsafe for everybody.

For their behavior to change, I'm talking about the kind of social unrest and chaos that people in the United States have never experienced because we're so isolated from much of the rest of the world. When stupid things like microaggressions and debates on if calling a woman "ma'am" is sexist or not fall by the wayside because you have no idea if you're going to eat today.
Modern women are especially safe and pampered today and they have no idea what true danger really is which is why they blow things like "this creepy looking guy stared at me in the parking lot" out of proportion. Women are clueless as to what actually living in an unsafe environment would be like.

[butterly248]

Common. Unfortunately where I live in the UK the sttack rate has gone from around 12,000 to 60,000 in a decade!

And that's just reported incidents. I gantutee this I'd double or even triple that. On top of that we get felt up on public transport a lot and there is less police due to budget cuts.

Since my attack around 2 years ago. I'm scared to go outside. When I do rarely leave the house it's always with someone or when no one is about. I stick to the light. Luckily there are still a lot of people about when I decide to go to the shop at night or whatever. I never have headphones in anymore.

[butterly248]

There are even phone lines to call if you're walking home alone and you feel unsafe!

[Passerby2]

Why are there so many more attacks

[butterly248]

No idea.

[Passerby2]

Damn it couldn't be multi racialism

[butterly248]

Nothing to do with that

[Passerby2]

So you don't know you just know it's not the obvious

[butterly248]

It's not that

[Passerby2]

I could try to prove you wrong but let's just say Sweden experienced a massive jump in sexual assaults when they let people of the religion of peace in

[butterly248]

That's very sad that's happened. But I don't agree. What you're saying is every non-white person is bad!

[Passerby2]

I said letting people who don't share anything in common into your country is the same as saying you don't have a country. These are immigrants that keep their religion, their ties to their homeland, and they typically hate the natives. Very similar to how white people treated the native Americans actually. It's human nature.

[butterly248]

Majority of immigration I've met are lovely

[Passerby2]

Are you stupid? You fight wars to stop people from coming into your country. That's how devastating immigration is.

[butterly248]

I don't no. The government and the people who voted for brexit do

[Passerby2]

It's common sense. People don't care about you. If you think human nature has changed you're a highly optimistic moron.

[butterly248]

I'm a moron then lol

[Passerby2]

Yes and you voting is why modern countries are dying to parasites

[butterly248]

I don't vote 😂

[butterly248]

We can do this forever but this isn't solving the issues of being unsafe the stress, people being homeless etc.

[butterly248]

Streets *

[Passerby2]

The increase in homeless is due to feminism. Rich business owners are holding more money to pay for the trips and bullshit men thinks is necessary to get the respect of modern women/their wives.

[butterly248]

Yes I'm sure the homeless people on the street are feminists 😂

[KrakenAttackin]

@butterly248. YOU KNOW EXACTLY WHY, but the UK thought police will arrest you is you post it.

The UK has allowed Muslim rapefugees to pour into it's borders and they are running amok.

[MemeSupreme]

kinda depends on the person and where you live but i feel like all of us always subconsciously do like the thought is in the back of our heads

sometimes it's just more noticeable tho

[Passerby2]

What do you fear

[MemeSupreme]

bats...

imma be batwoman one day by using my fear against those who would harm the innocent

[Passerby2]

What do you fear for real

[MemeSupreme]

getting killed, assaulted, mugged, kidnapped, and like any of the usual shit people fear lol

[Passerby2]

Lmao that must be why so many women jump with bug eyes at noises

[Passerby2]

Do you fear men

[MemeSupreme]

yes and no

its situational and how ik them

[Passerby2]

It's a stranger but maybe they go to the same school. Are you generally afraid

[MertJK]

Feelings of safety can vary greatly depending on a variety of factors such as location, personal experiences, and individual circumstances. While some girls may feel generally safe, others may experience feelings of insecurity or vulnerability due to issues such as harassment, discrimination, or violence. It's important to address any concerns about safety and seek support from trusted individuals or resources if needed. Additionally, creating safe environments and advocating for gender equality can help address these concerns on a broader scale.

[naartjie]

Common. I left the gym at 10:30pm and I did a little jog to the car and you’re always looking around to know your surroundings. I’ve seen too many girls with black eyes, getting jumped etc

[Anonymous]

It's very common.

We also need to make sure to discern whether or not the feeling is actually warranted because we have had moments in history where women have used "i feel unsafe" as a weapon for proxy violence.

If you live in the US, chances are you know of the story of Emmitt Till and how well he ended after a woman named Carolyn Bryant claimed he wolf-whistled her and made her feel unsafe.

[PeachyPie93]

It is common for most girls I think but I don't worry because you have to be attractive to be a target of men lol.

[laly520]

very common

especially during late night walks

[SecretsofKB]

It can be common for some. There's plenty of time I've felt unsafe.

[handsomelad70]

Look, women ALWAYS must be vigilant for creeps.(Last year in Downtown Windsor, a teenage girl was sexually assaulted in the afternoon, and such events are far from rare ANYWHERE.)

[Muthaginge]

Unsafe.. where in what kinda sense? Street, work. Sex, school etc?

[verylovelyguy]

when i creepily stare at them. they feel unsafe

[Anonymous]

The smart ones are on their guard. Unsafe? That might be a stretch. The smart ones know enough to avoid/minimize compromising situations.

[justabuddy]

I've noticed more and more girls are carrying concealed around here. So I think it's very common for girls to feel unsafe.

[Apple1996]

Extremely common

[Passerby2]

What do you fear

[Apple1996]

People lol

[Passerby2]

Men or women

[Apple1996]

Both

[Passerby2]

Why do you fear women

[IslaTheWitch]

depends on the girl, lol

[Passerby2]

Before I moved back in with my mom, both my sister and mom had baseball bats by their beds. Lmfao.

[slatyb]

Sadly all too common.

[Dongie]

Unsafe from what?
The big bad wolf?🤣

[butterly248]

Being followed, being looked st, being hurt etc.

[mandyfire98]

Very common.

[Passerby2]

Do you think girls feel unsafe when on a first date

[mandyfire98]

More cautious and aware of our surroundings than outright fearful. We definitely can take precautions for sure because we don't know the other person yet. I'll usually tell my best friend I have a date and where I'm going and when.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Very common.

[strateguy632]

i think rare.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Ima spectate 👀