How do you I deal with a person who complains on social media about me?

[Anonymous]

So my current roommate instead of talk through issues, decides to vent about me on her social media Instagram story. It’s so annoying and she does it about the smallest of things despite not being a perfect person herself in the house. The kicker is she doesn’t have me on social media but we have a mutual friend who lets me know she says this.

[Hardy_007]

I have heard about the term backbiting! It seems applicable in your case... Stay away from her for at least a good amount of time. Notice any changes in her behaviour. Don't bother her existence in your life. If you still feel the same toxicity after the break! Try changing your residence

[Asker]

Yeah you’re probably right

[Hardy_007]

Oh I feel glad if that's helped you. Feel free to reach out if you want any further assistance. 😉

[Asker]

Can I message you privately?

[Hardy_007]

Please go ahead. I am happy to talk

[BoopBoopBeep]

You don't. That's just a basic personality flaw. You get another roomie and minimize your interaction in the interim, provided you're already told her you don't want to be talked about on social media.

[JacobJordan]

You confront her and make it really uncomfortable. Or you just find somewhere else to stay

[Asker]

I can’t we’re on a year lease

[JacobJordan]

Then confront her

[HappyWoman34]

I agree with Hardy.

[slatyb]

You don't. WGAF what they post?

[WhitneySnow]

Just ignore it. Or complain about her back.

[Ms_Facesitter]

I'd confront her.

[DreamLife7]

Why are you still living there? Move out duh

[Asker]

I’m on a lease obviously..