I think my girlfriend is pregnant but she took 2 pregnancy test in the beginning but I wasn’t present for either one she ended up sending me the?

[Ziggariah1029]

Pictures of them being negative than she said she got her period but she vomits a lot on her period so she says I ask her can she take a pregnancy test in front of me she said no because she is not pregnant and now I’m starting to meet her whole family but in a weird way like there coming to our job because we work together she is making me real familiar with her family but do you think she is pregnant?

[Oliverlogan263]

Dude that's definitely sketchy how she won't take another test in front of you. A couple things could be going on:

- She might actually be pregnant and hiding it. Taking pics of fake negative tests is an easy lie. And rushing you to meet the fam ASAP is sus.

- She could have cheated and doesn't want you to find out the kid isn't yours. Hence the secrecy with her "period".

- On the other hand, maybe she has trust issues or just really hates taking pee tests in front of people. But forcing a fam intro seems like overcompensation.

The only way to know for sure is get her to take one with you present, or go to the clinic together. Explain you want to be supportive either way and aren't mad, you just want the truth after her dodginess.

If she still refuses, I'd be thinking worst case scenario. At minimum she's not being truthful. I'd consider a paternity test for the kid too bro. Don't wanna be raising someone else's mistake. Keep me posted on how it plays out!

[Ziggariah1029]

Well let me not say girlfriend co worker fling thing she recently told me she had to break someone heart because they was telling her what to do with her business and like her mother brother and sister all of sudden start coming by our job she showing me who is who and I’m 31 she is 20 and she says she told her mom about me and I’m like why would you do that if it’s just a fling I’m confused

[Oliverlogan263]

Damn dude, this whole situation sounds sketchy as hell. A few red flags:

- Her breaking up with someone else right before introducing you to her family? Coincidence?

- She's only 20 and you're 31, so there's a big maturity/life stage difference.

- Introducing you to her whole family already for just a casual fling makes no sense.

- The fact she told her mom all about you when it's supposed to just be casual hooking up. Why get the fam involved?

Honestly bro, it sounds to me like she's trying to lock you down and make you her new "boyfriend" real quick before any pregnancy news comes out. All the moves she's making just scream "emotional manipulation" to me.

I'd be thinking real hard about getting outta there before you end up on the hook for child support, my man. If she won't take another preg test in front of you, that's all the proof you need something fishy is up. Watch your back and your wallet, bro!

[strateguy632]

if period started certainly not pregnant.

[Ziggariah1029]

I don't know if her period started or not she could be lying to me telling me she has her period and not actually have it

[In_Trance]

You're 31 ffs. Grow tf up

[Ziggariah1029]

You really didn’t have to comment you can eat shit lol

[In_Trance]

Suck it loser