It's about my xbox mate?

[Anonymous]

So there's this girl I met on Xbox who slid into my DMs. We started chatting it up, and after a week or so, we were on voice chat for like half a day, almost every day. But here's the thing, after two months, she's been calling me "dummy" and "dumb" all the time. Like, every minute we're in a voice chat. It's weird because I haven't been rude to her or anything. I'm not sure what her deal is. What should I do? If age matters, were both 19. Thanks!

[D_Bone_Steak]

Welcome to females my dude. This is what you get. At first they're all nice and inviting and then they figure out your weaknesses and flaws. They're not like me if I did that to you... I'd make you stronger. Their intention is to keep you down, and not make you better. Their intention is to make you subordinate to themselves. Fun?

If you're anything like me, I bet after figuring out what's going down is anything but fun. I would describe it as walking on egg shells... it hurts and every crack noise you make gets ridiculed. Might I suggest dropping this bitch like a bad habit? ... Because she is a bad habit.

Think about it. You're not even fucking her or enjoying blowjobs from her on the constant and she's still treating you like she does. Throw out the garbage, get rid of her.

[SamIam96]

What she says is less important than how she says it. Listen to her tone of voice and the context when she does this.

Over time, couples often adopt pet names for each other. It isn't the most pleasant choice but hopefully that's what she's doing. Assume the best until you know otherwise.

In my experience, pet names evolve over time. With some luck, this one will be replaced.

[missginga]

bro she's an adult. If she's trying to flirt by calling you dumb, she's the dumb one. Maybe just tell her it bothers you, and if you rlly like her just try to wait it out and figure it out, but if its just like a fling maybe just let it die.

[laly520]

tell her to show some respect

u dont deserve to be called that

[only4me]

Did she maybe make allusions to meet up in real life someday or something comparable? I mean i obviously dont know the whole story, but it seems to me you two were quite familiar before? Maybe she is a bit disappointed

Nevertheless the behaviour isn't nice and you deserve better! Did you adress her behaviour in one of your calls?

[Anonymous]

You have to show her that you don’t like her behavior. Tell her at first but if she keeps doing it just spend less time with her and see if she fixes it

[JacobJordan]

She isn't being rude mate.

[SotiCoto]

She slid into your Dungeon Master's what now?