What can I do to get her attention again?

[Martymart]

There was this girl, attractive, who admitted to liking me and even asked for my number. I didn’t text her much because I’m not a texter. When she would see me, she should go out of her way to sit and have a conversation with me. She was sweet, shy and you could tell she wasn’t use to being the one to make the first move/initiator. I got use to her coming to me and sitting to talk with me, sometimes texting me (But she wasn’t excessive or blowing up my phone) now she just speaks and says “Hey” when she sees me. She doesn’t stop to chat with me anymore, she doesn’t text or she doesn’t go out of her way to chat with me anymore. She doesn’t show the same amount of interest anymore.

[Oliverlogan263]

Alright bro sounds like you need to step your game up if you wanna get this girl's attention again. Here's what I would do:

- Initiate the conversations yourself now instead of always waiting for her. Show her you're interested.

- Ask her thoughtful questions to get to know her better. Smile and make strong eye contact too so she feels engaged.

- Compliment her in a genuine way, not just her looks. Show you appreciate her mind and personality.

- Suggest doing something fun and low-pressure together like grabbing coffee. Getting one-on-one time will help the bond.

- Text her more regularly now even if just quick check-ins. A couple texts a day keeps you on her mind.

- Be bold and flirty when the vibes are right. Light teasing or an inside joke can deepen the connection.

- Don't come on too strong though. Balance assertiveness with making her feel comfortable.

- Most importantly, really listen when she talks and be emotionally available. Show her you care.

If you ramp up the charm offensively bro, I bet she'll start crushing on you even harder than before. Just put in a little effort to rekindle that spark! You got this dude.

[LuminousMind]

Perhaps she thinks you don’t like her because it seems like she’s the one putting the most effort

[laly520]

it comes naturally