If a girl says she is thinking about you while drunk, are those just drunk thoughts or does she like me?

[Anonymous]

[mobiusforniner]

Ask yourself, do you really feel valued when somebody thinks of you only when they’re intoxicated? When they can’t think coherently? When they otherwise wouldn’t bother to find time for you?

kind of feels less and less exciting doesn’t it…..

[Asker]

Indeed

[Dongie]

But there is a shot in there. No pun.

[Kaneki05]

Whenever I've drunk I've always been able to know my own actions and control them. So when people tell me they can't and the alcohol made them do something I just think it's a lie and excuse.
So I would think she does think about me but just refuses to accept it.

[Asker]

She probably likes me but is scared to tell me. When she is sober she never gives me the time of day.

[Dongie]

Buy her a bottle of wine and check back in half an hour.

[IslaTheWitch]

don't believe anyone who is drunk. It can be they are reflecting their emotions but can also be that feel more courageous because of alcohol and what they say has nothing to do with their feelings or reality

[KrakenAttackin]

@IslaTheWitch Correct. Intox people regularly say and do foolish things.

[Dongie]

@KrakenAttackin that's the purpose for the drink it seems.

[Pinay_ako]

When she’s sober, how does she act around you? People say stupid things when they’re drunk. Doesn’t necessarily mean is true all the time. Alcohol gives you some kind of power to be bold and act out.

[Asker]

When she is sober she never gives me the time of day. I assume she isn't interested and those were just drunk words.

[bobalife]

It’s a liquid courage😂 But there are types of drunks that they’re so intoxicated… it’s a different story.
Try to talk to her more when she’s sober~

[Asker]

When I try to talk to her when she is sober she doesn't really give me the time of day

[bobalife]

Keep your distance, then see if she comes to you. Or maybe moved on if she’s not reciprocating because you also deserve better.

[Asker]

She always comes back but I don't know why. She doesn't want to hang out or do anything

[bobalife]

Yeah it’s a waste of time tbh. Sounds like games🙄

[Asker]

Absolutely. When I called her out about it she acted oblivious like she didn't know what she was doing.

[bobalife]

Yeah, she’s not it… people who be playing games too much is a major turned off… literally made a post about hot and cold 😂 yeah forget her, there’s a lot of better women out there.

[AviatorTom]

Alcohol usually lowers someone's inhibitions. She may like you or she may just be horny. Talk to her when she's sober to find out.

[Asker]

When she's sober she never gives me the time of day. She doesn't even want to hang out

[BoopBoopBeep]

Then there's your answer

[FunkyMonkee]

From what I've seen, it's probably how she really feels. Being drunk lowers your inhibitions and lets others see the real you.

[Asker]

How come when she is sober she doesn't really give me the time of day?

[FunkyMonkee]

She's, basically, in two states of mind. It's just that, when she's lost control of her mind, she acts the way she really feels because she can't control herself enough to keep up the veil. It's like how my 2nd girlfriend would have these bouts of "nervous breakdowns". when she's completely normal, we're just very good friends but, when she goes into Lala Land, suddenly, I become her husband!

[dustybiker2]

Depends on what kind of drunk she is. If infrequent it's gibberish. I doubt she even remembers saying it.

[Anonymous]

Could go either way. Alcohol gives a lot of people courage to express their true feelings or thoughts…I would think you are on her mind more than you know in that case.

[Asker]

I agree. However when she is sober she never gives me the time of day

[Dongie]

Get a watch and talk to her.

[JayBones]

They are drunk thoughts. You should stop being gay and get your dick wet. Who cares if she is still there in the morning

[Asker]

I tried to set something up but she wasn't down with it

[JayBones]

Damn. Better luck next time

[LiamJHayden]

She might really be into you and shy, she might sort of think you are kind of great sometimes, or who knows?

[Asker]

I assume she isn't interested because when she is sober she doesn't give me the time of day.

[TM_KO_AF]

bootycall leads to drunk sex
and her accusing U of Rape

nothing serious
just let her talk

"get some sleep
see if u still feel
that way about me sober" 😈🍆

[Asker]

When she is sober she never gives me the time of day

[TM_KO_AF]

then drop her dude

unless you
really like her
and
it doesn't bother u

just don't let her
shake ur confidence
if she not the one

[Drumlin2001]

Not sure. But don't go near her until she sobers up or you'll find yourself accused of something

[Dongie]

I think a lot of truth comes out when one is drunk, especially concerning mating.

[Asker]

I thought so as well. Apparently not in every case. When she is sober she never gives me the time of day

[Dongie]

Yeah, there's also that brief moment when drunk horniness comes out then next day embarrassment.

[moneymagnet24]

Don't take this holes seriously she send this text to other 5 guys same time 😂

[Sevenpointfive]

send her a dick pic and find out

[LaurenM1997]

Nah it’s just drunk words

[OtterMan68]

Alcohol is truth serum

[Asker]

I agree. Why doesn't she give me the time of day when she is sober?

[OtterMan68]

many possible reasons: Shy, has a guy on the side, has friends who don't like you...

[nawtee_me]

Get her drunk again and ask her about it.

[annabananna]

😂 😂

[bobalife]

😂😂😂

[QuietRunner]

drunk is usually the truth

[Asker]

Indeed but if she doesn't give me the time of day when she is sober I guess that means not interested

[Anonymous]

Drunk thoughts are true thoughts.

[Asker]

I agree. However when she is sober she never gives me the time of day

[Opinion Owner]

Social pressures (friends) stop most girls from doing things they want. They often just go with the herd.

[Asker]

Great point. This girl is 6'0 & I'm 5'7, do you think that is the bigger issue that is happening here?

[Opinion Owner]

If her friends tell her anything negative, she will “believe it”.
They go to the bathroom together, and their friends make the choices for them.
If she said “do you think he is cute” and their friends (who are usually just jealous and petty) say “ewww”, she will go “I guess” or something and try to convince herself that she isn’t interested.

[RavVid]

In Vino truth.

[Asker]

Huh?

[RavVid]

Old Roman saying. Someone who is intoxicated is less guarded in what they say.

[laly520]

just drunk thoughts

[jahaims]

She wants you

[Asker]

When she is sober she never gives me the time of day

[Dongie]

Heh, you and father time