Ladies if a girl totally flirted with you when she's drunk does she like you when she's sober?

[Anonymous]

Ok I recently went on a trip up to maine and I noticed the guys were very laid back. I thought to myself being so laid back how do guys hook up with girls around here. And none of the girls seemed interested in the guys. Then I found out the answer. Once it got around 8 ocklock the girls started drinking and heavily. By 9 they were very drunk and they started flirting with the the guys. One girl even started rubbing her own breasts. And then a cupple of the guys got laid. One girl asked me if I wanted to share an Alabama Slammer with her. We drank the same drink with 2 straws. So the next day when the buzz wore off the girl totaly stopped flirting with me. It almost like she was a vampire. Except with alcohol by day she showed no sign of even liking me at night she is flinging her hair back wanting to share drinks and totaly flirting. She even did the batting eyes routine.so my question is if a girl flirts with you while she is drunk does she realy like you even if she shows no interest when she is sober. Does alcohol bring out the real person or a totally different personality. Thanx

[Anonymous]

I think alcol brings out a completely different side of a person. I know when I go out to just party (just dancing, I don't drink) I feel like I can be different and my personality changes from being shy and quiet to being flirtatious. I can act up a little, but since I'm not under the influence of alcohol, I don't screw around with people (I'd have to worry about the consequencs afterwards). And because alcohol can have such a strong affect on a person, the same thing can happen, just on a more drastic level. So, this girl, there's a good chance that she may not be interested. She's just being loose and having fun. I guess in a way she's being herself, but at the same time, because of the alcohol, she could be doing things that she wouldn't plan on doing sober. Hope this helped!

[Anonymous]

Believe me alcohol brings out a different you. Maybe she found out that she liked you after the drinking

[Lifeson]

This is an interesting question. It reminds me of an interview I saw with Eric Clapton. he was talking about how when he first stopped drinking, he couldn't do any sexual act because he had never done so sober. It might be similar with these girls. They have never flirted with a guy sober so they don't think they can or really can't.

It varries how alcohol affects a person. Some people will tell you their life story. Others will become another person entirely. So really its all dependant on the person.

[The-Nash]

Interesting and insightful answer!

[The-Nash]

I'd try to see if people were having relationships or just being friends with benefits/just hooking up with the other person.

It sounds like there's more of the friends with benefits kind of thing happening, and when they're not benefiting from each other, the people are just friendly, and sort of laid back in the mean time.

[JennieF]

Maybe.