Do most guys think its okay for their girl to go out to bars getting Drunk every weekend with her female and male friends?

[tempirl2012]

[Finchie40]

Not at all , unless her and I are just dating and we aren’t official , but if she wants to be my girlfriend then her going out partying days with her friends needs to come to a end and not really be a priority in her life anymore , the same way I would do for her , that’s why boundaries are important in relationships , what you don’t want your partner doing to you, needs to be the same rules for you as well, not the other way around , if she can’t do that for me , then I won’t do that for her period. She wouldn’t be my girlfriend Pernod, if she prioritizes her friends over me. The truth is , she is just something to do , I dated girls’ that loved going to the bars with her friends. That made going to the bars with her friends a priority over spending time with me , I was ok with it because her and I weren’t official , she was more just a friend and a piece of ass over anything. She would show up at my house after the bar just to get fucked , I would fuck her but I wouldn’t commit to her because her and I didn’t see eye to eye on things , When I am with a girl like that , I don’t really take her serious , because I know the kind of shit that goes down at bars and clubs especially if she is going consistently. She wouldn’t be a girl I give my heart to , unless she proved to me I was her priority and she no longer prioritized her friends and bars over me. I like to drink as well on the weekends , I would rather be with a girl that wants to drink with me over a girl that wants to drink without me. If she chooses to drink without me consistently then she isn’t a girl that I would really consider being my girlfriend , she would just be a convenience to me.

[Summeroflove]

It comes down to trust. If she isn’t cheating on him it’s not that big of a deal. Though I’m not a fan of drunk obnoxious women. But if she goes out to have a few drinks that’s one thing. If she’s really going out and cheating it’s a problem.

Everyone is different and people have different relationship standards. This is why some people are compatible and some aren’t. Because everyone is different and looking for their soulmate. I don’t think bashing a entire other sex because they aren’t conforming to your standards is a bad road to go down.

[Apple1996]

Most guys probably wouldn't like that but I bet a lot of those men would think it's okay for them to go out drinking with friends

[katiesmuff]

No I don't see any guy who cares about his girl being ok with something like that!

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

I don't mind so much as long as I'm there with her most of the time. These days I would mind since I've quit drinking alcohol. My wife hasn't quit but she's turned into a glass of wine over dinner type and that's about it.

But when I was your age, my wife and I often went out on weekends and got drunk with our friends. Good times. Also every now and then like once every month or two, we'd go out separately with guys' night (me and our male friends) and girls' night (she and our female friends).

[slatyb]

It's not wise for anyone to have a habit of getting drunk, and I wouldn't date a woman who did.

If my partner wanted to go out with a mixed group, I would go with her. If I weren't invite I would reconsider the relationship. If it's just the girls then I wouldn't expect to be asked.

[Flatmanlewis]

No. Not at all. If she once in a great while wanted to go catch up with her gal pals (which she does a couple times a year) and had one too many, then I’m not bothered by it. I’m thinking local winery or Sunday brunch. ( This, of course, is because they are mutual friends and in fact one of them was the one that introduced us. ) If she was going out on Friday or Saturday nights to bars (Or especially nightclubs) we would have a problem.

[Lionman95]

No but many guys are too weak in their mind to say anything against that since they don´t want to come off controlling. They´ve been taught to accept her choices and let her live like she wants. Inside they don´t like it but they don´t know how to talk about without making her angry and end the relationship.

[DextroShade]

No, that is completely unacceptable. Men who are worth a damn don't tolerate their women risking their relationship by getting drunk at bars; only desperate losers and cucked soyboys allow this sort of behavior. If you want to act single then just be single.

[WindAtMyBack]

Absolutely not. Going out getting drunk every weekend is probably the biggest deal breaker there is. For someone college age, it's bad enough. But anyone older than that should have knocked it off long ago. It's a REALLY bad habit.

[RHK36]

Depends on how old she is and why she feels like drinking at bars every weekend is the only thing she can do. At some point if it becomes their hangout spot lowkey that's kind of trashy and played out when you get older at least for me.

[Anonymous]

Fuck no. If my girl was like that we wouldn’t even be together. I don’t mind if we go out to dinner, have a few drinks. But what you described has long past. It’s time to grow up, move on to bigger, better things.

[AviatorTom]

Her going out with her friends is fine, but repeatedly getting drunk is not. That's not just unhealthy, it's dangerous and risky.

[patrick994]

If I were engaged, I would be OK with my girlfriend going out with both male and female friends, but she absolutely must not get drunk.

[Staximus]

That's college age behavior, of she's not in her early 20's then it's time to grow up

[JacobJordan]

Instant major red flag and tells me she is never to be considered by any self respecting man

[genericname85]

i'm not a spokes person for men. but i wouldn't go for an alcoholic woman.

[exitseven]

No, once in a while would be okay but every weekend is tough

[Jackblue]

I wouldn't mind it. I like to go to bars too.

[Anonymous]

Wtf guy wants to be around that shit unless he was getting laid by a cheap one night stand and if that's the case then he better double bag it cause God only knows where you been

[msc545]

No. I ended things with a woman who did most of this except the getting drunk part.

[Anonymous]

I don’t think it’s appropriate. It’s pretty immature behavior.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Nope. Especially not at your age.

[Anonymous]

Everyone has to grow up at some point.

[aceleon]

if a guy thinks like this he is a cuck not a guy.

[jahaims]

If they are okay with trash sure

[Squatting_Slav]

i think most men wouldn't like it

[OtterMan68]

no, that's not a good sign

[handsomelad70]

Probably not.(I wouldn't like it, either.)

[RossyBoi]

Yes, it's fine.

[Bobby88t]

Yes i think if she would like to have fun

[AngryCarl]

Fine if I was with her.

[Anonymous]

I don't like drunk women.

[BarryLiverstone]

Nope

[DagonbroughtMehere]

I despise drunkards.

[dinojames22]

No..

[Slim57]

Every weekend? Nah