Is it okay for your girlfriend to get DRUNK with YOUR friends while you aren't around?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend is on vacation with his friend, and he mentioned that his girlfriend is going out to pubs and getting drunk with HIS friends while he's away. My boyfriend said his friend won't stop talking about things happening at home rather than enjoying the vacation. Personally I found it weird that the girl is getting drunk with her boyfriend's friends while he's not even there. Thoughts?

Yes, that's completely fine

I'm not comfortable with that

[zeitgeist057]

To me, it would be fine and normal. It sounds like in this scenario the guy is worried and maybe for good reason.

As you can see from the other answers, this goes on both ends of the spectrum from "yes, I trust my girlfriend and my friends" to "the lying whore bitch is blowing the lot of them". Different people obviously have different trust levels (or issues, lol).

Hopefully, we can find ourselves more in the first type of relationship and with the first type of friends than the second. But that depends ultimately on us and our own energy that we put into the world and what we attract. Birds of a feather, flock together.

[NathanDavis]

if my girlfriend were drunk with my friends, I would be 100% certain that she would be absolutely safe and well taken care of, no doubt whatsoever... no matter how wasted or intoxicated she ended up... lol

but those are my friends, we're talking about great people here

[sunflower00]

If she knows them and is friends with them too then I think it’s normal, I’d think it’s a bit weird if she doesn’t know them though. But then I mean I guess you should trust your partner and friends and hopefully they would be loyal to you

[Dazed0N0Confused]

I don't see the problem with it, the only time anyone should worry is if it comes out their partner cheated.

[OlderAndWiser]

I think how they handle that is based on their level of trust and only those two fully understand that. They haven't requested any help with this issue, so I would withhold judgment.

[GlassTop]

Nope. Absolutely not. Definitely cheating gonna happen. It’s your closest friends who would screw your girlfriend 😂. The fact that your girlfriend is going to bars without you is a big red flag. Listen, take it from personal experience and many others…drop your girlfriend immediately. Getting drunk at bars is a HUGE RED FLAG!!! I’m dead serious! There is a reason your heart and gut is extremely uncomfortable with it. If your girlfriend is doing that while in a committed relationship, imagine how she was single. Hell no. Anyone who has been cheated on or been in a long enough relationship knows bars are for single people. They also know not to trust ANYONE with your partner. It’s these reasons People can’t be in a committed relationship anymore. Because people doing single people stuff while in a relationship. You are only supposed to do that stuff with your partner. When is it ok to go to a strip club? When you are single or WITH your partner. The final nail in the coffin is alcohol. Girls get fucked when they drink. They get fucked a lot. A drunk girl is about the only way guys can get laid in the first place. A sober girl and giving out no butt. Get them drunk and they’ll be sucking dick in a minute.

[MikeInHawaii]

A woman I went out with a couple of times in college got drunk at my fraternity parties on a regular basis. My fraternity had 24 members and she fucked six that I know of. If a guy took her out on a date, though, she would give him the cold shoulder hoping he would respect her.

As far as sexual morality goes, I don’t trust drunken women. I don’t trust men even when they are sober.

[HighValue]

She is likely cheating.

I wouldn't be with someone that drinks alcohol whether I am around at the time or not.

[DannyUk2017]

From drunk talk, also can jump/turn in to sex drunk... but hey! That's their problem, right?

[Staximus]

If had a girlfriend and it was my friends and their wives\girlfriends she was drinking with, that's fine. But not just one of my friends. That's shady.

[exitseven]

I would be fine with it. I would know that they would take care of her.

[Sarahplus2]

Being drunk doesn't mean she is having sex. She probably trusts them.

[Vegasrunner]

Absolutely not. She should instantly become your ex girlfriend

[WhiteBoyChill]

That is really messed up. He should break up with her immediately

[Anonymous]

because she's fucking them or giving them blowjobs the bitch is cheating like the whore she is

[Jamie05rhs]

I don't date women who drink.

[dolemite89]

sounds a bit suspect 😂

[Nikki101977]

Only if your not only woman there. I believe.