If a girl goes from liking your post to liking nothing, is she trying to get my attention?

[Anonymous]

[MrQun]

I don't think that she had ever truly liked you. If a woman likes you, she'll make great a effort to make that known to you. If she's going to play these stupid games, well again she doesn't like you. Also you're better off not dealing with such people. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.

My rule of thumb: If there is any doubt that a woman likes me, then she doesn't like me and is most likely playing games.

[Autumnfall27]

Girls like posts VERY carefully. I do this as well. We have a motive. Pay attention to the type of posts that we like and that should tell you what you need to know: is the post your face? Then yeah we want your attention

[Asker]

What if you liked what a guy was reposting on TikTok?

[bobalife]

It’s 50/50 tbh. Maybe like her post or message her to see if she reciprocate?

[Asker]

I actually messaged her and got straight to the point but she wasn't interested

[Anonymous]

Peurile zoomer concerns. Whether someone likes a post or not doesn't mean enough of anything to be worth paying attention to.

[Asker]

You're right. In the grand scheme of things it doesn't mean anything

[KrakenAttackin]

No, she has found a new shiny toy to play with.

[citygirlxox]

No she just doesn’t like you

[Asker]

She never liked me

[Flatmanlewis]

No. In fact, the opposite.

[Asker]

Can you elaborate?

[Juxtapose]

Dude don't play these stupid mind games.

[Asker]

Just asked a question because I was curious

[Juxtapose]

Well you are trying to infer way too much from way too little. You would have to be a telepath to get that information without directly asking her.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like past tense. You missed the boat buddy.

[Asker]

How did I miss my opportunity?

[Opinion Owner]

If she's distracted by someone else she's no long paying attention to you.

[Asker]

Are you saying because she doesn't like anything I post anymore someone else got her attention?

[KrakenAttackin]

Asker... Chad is balls deep in her which is cutting down on her Instagram time.

[Opinion Owner]

@KrakenAttackin That can be distracting. Details are key.

[Starrrboy]

More like the opposite..

[Asker]

Why the opposite?

[Starrrboy]

She used to be interested in you and liking your posts.. so when she stops , maybe she's not interested anymore.. if stop liking your posts is her way of getting your attention, shouldn't that mean you're kinda close or familiar with each other for that to make sense? I don't know.. not enough context...

[Subflics]

Sounds like quite the opposite

[Anonymous]

Sounds like it.

[Asker]

Why do you think so?

[Opinion Owner]

Because that's what manipulative women do.

[Asker]

What if she just doesn't like what I posted?

[Opinion Owner]

Well I'm assuming you had some other reason than just the post to think she was trying to get your attention.

[Asker]

I understand it was a vague question but I don't have any other reason. I know girls like to play mind games so that is what I thought was happening.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, the best advice I can give to you man is give equal attention to her. NO MORE!

[Asker]

Absolutely she has been ignoring me so I've been doing the same

[Opinion Owner]

Just remember there are almost 4 billion women on the planet. That is your mantra. If you've showed clear interest in her the ball is now in her court. If she's interested she needs to risk something. If she doesn't want to do that then she doesn't value you. If she cares about you at all she'll reach out. If not. Just remember she is not special there are 4 billion others just like her.

[Asker]

Right on thanks a lot for the advice.

[Opinion Owner]

Np man. This is the unfortunate game if the genders. No one wants to be someone's game. But the woman that does value you WILL make that EQUAL effort. 👍

[Anonymous]

I don't think so. What did she like?

[Asker]

On TikTok she was liking my repost and a couple of my stories.

[Opinion Owner]

I don't know how tik tok works. I don't have one. What were your stories about?

[Asker]

A little backstory: me and her had a falling out but never had a conversation to clear things up. Years later I followed her on TikTok and she followed back.

One story in particular was about letting go of resentment and moving on. She liked that one. Mostly the other ones were either funny memes or nostalgic posts.

[Opinion Owner]

It seems like she agrees with your views. But that doesn't mean she's interested. Has she every liked your picture on Facebook. Clicked the heart button? At least that would indicate something lol

[Opinion Owner]

Guys have heart reacted to my picture on Facebook and then slid in my dms.

Sorry, I'm old school I still have Facebook 😂

[Asker]

Facebook isn't in the conversation because I Don't have one. The only social media I have is TikTok and I'm basing everything off that. I agree that she is most likely not interested. Her ignoring my message validated that. I just believe after she ignored the message I sent she started liking the posts for a reason.

[Opinion Owner]

You can message people on ticktok?
And she never replied to it? Did she see it?

[Asker]

Yup just like Facebook you can inbox other people. It depends on their settings because you can restrict non followers from being able to inbox you.
She responded to the first message and the second one she ignored. There is a 99.9% chance she saw it because she responded to the first one.

[Opinion Owner]

What did you say?

[Asker]

I wanted to text her so the first message I asked her if her phone number was still the same since we last spoke. Remind you we haven't spoken in years. She told me Yes. I then asked if it was okay to text her or email if you're not comfortable with texting. She didn't respond.

I'm good at taking hints so I assumed she wasn't interested and left it at that. In my opinion it made no sense for her to even respond to the first message knowing what follows.

[Opinion Owner]

That's seems sus. Maybe she likes the attention.
Did you ever message her? Just to see if she responds?

[Asker]

Knowing her, she LOVES the attention. Unfortunately no I didn't message her because I thought she would just ignore it. I wonder if she expected me to text her and when I didn't she started to like the posts. I find it sus she didn't like anything before I sent that message.

[Opinion Owner]

Wait. You know she loves attention?

Why are you wasting your time with her then?

[Asker]

I mean no one is perfect. Everyone has flaws. I can't hold it against her that she loves attention because a lot of girls do.

[Opinion Owner]

I hate attention. 😂
Only insecure people like attention because they need validation.
I see that as a red flag.

[Asker]

I'm the same way. I shy away from attention. I prefer to be out of the spotlight.
I agree that it is a red flag.
I just need to move on from her because there is nothing good that can come from this.

[Opinion Owner]

It's not that I shy away from attention. I don't seek other people's approval. If they think I'm pretty, it's fine but I don't need their validation. 😂

[Asker]

I agree

[Opinion Owner]

How old are you by the way

[Asker]

21, how about you?

[Opinion Owner]

29. Yeah it seems like something a young guy might be confused about lol

[Asker]

In real life I act more mature than my age but I must admit certain situations confuse me sometimes.

[Opinion Owner]

Ah. Okay. It's time to stay away from social media then lol