Girls, she recently stopped liking my statuses and commenting on my posts, she still does so to other people, has she lost interest?

[Anonymous]

I mean... I don't know what to do... Should I do something? We went on a date last week, and we had been friends for a while before...
i mean, I just wish I had some closure on this. If she would just tell me she wasn't interested... But instead I'm just kind of stuck here twiddling my thumbs...
i feel like asking her would be kinda, no very needy sounding... But honestly, it was my first date in 5 years and I have only experiances girls rejecting me by just cutting me out of their lives slowly... And it kinda hurts that my supposed friend is doing this, if she's doing this, because I did see us at the very least as friends.
I don't know maybe she thought I was getting too into her. Last thing I guess I really did was send her some pics I found online of her favorite animal drawn by her favorite artist... I sent them pretty early but it was cuz I was awake all night working on projects and stumbled on them while looking for inspiration... I don't know.
to be honest I feel shitty. I'd like some kind of answer from her but don't even know how to begin trying to get it.
i donno if it is a case of her thinking I'm just too into her, I guess there's no coming back, is there?
how would I know?
I feel like I might have come off like that... And I mean yeah, im pretty into her, but I'm not like creepy obsessed (said every stalker ever lol), I just honestly don't want to play games pretending I'm disinterested and shit, and to be frank, I don't know what the fuck I'm doing since I have no experiance with this sort of thing. (I was obese through college and end of high school so I had zero flirting experiance during that time)
please help me :/

[Anonymous]

Yes, you would sound very needy if you ask her about this.

In my experience, when someone stops liking you it's more of a sudden cut you out than a gradual process. I would say just play it cool and act like its no big deal-because honestly? It's not a big deal. I Don't think I've ever sat there and made a point of "liking" everything a crush posts.

Actually-I've never even thought it was important at all lol. Your bigger "signs" are things like does she text you back in a reasonable time frame? Does she start conversations with you? When you hang out, does her body language portray interest (breaking touch barrier, laughing at jokes, sitting close, etc)

[Asker]

Well what I meant was ask something along the lines of if she's interested in me, which is needy but not as bad as WHY aren't YOU LIKING MY STATUSES?
Lol.
Yeah she does all those things, except weirdly the touch barrier seemed much more up during our date, where as she usually pokes my nose a lot, puts her hand on my chest, and grabs my cheeks, she only really elbowed me a lot during our date.
Like I said, I know I'm probably worrying over nothing... But my best friend in high school just dropped talking to me entirely one day out of nothing and the last girl I tried asking put kinda led me on for a long time before going back to her ex, so I get a tad nervous, and if I had clarity, I'd be a lot more comfortable, cuz as it stands things are sorta up in the air.

[Opinion Owner]

If you were wanting clarity I would maybe bring up being exclusive with her/asking if she wants to be your girlfriend or something similar. In person.

[Asker]

Yeah, I know you're right. That said I feel like though we've been friends and hung out a bit, we've only been on one actual date and I don't know maybe that's too soon.
I've never had a girlfriend either so to be honest I'm not even entirely sure how to ask.,,

[StephanieSpoiler]

Hmm ok... So I don't know how much she likes you or whatever... Only she does...
As for FB likes, I wouldn't worry too much about it to be honest. Maybe she's been busy and your stuff doesn't pop up on her feed very much.
Maybe take a step back here?
I think you just have an honest crush... Idek what else to say. Try shooting her a text today and see what's up :/

[Anonymous]

Maybe you started posting boring things

[Asker]

Nah, I post some pretty awesome things lol... We have essentially the same intetests, honestly.