Why do girls ignore your messages instead of blocking you if they have no interest in talking to you?

[Anonymous]

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Ignore guy's messages *

[Danny_dan92]

From my understanding.




Sometimes girls leave guys on read when they happen to have a boyfriend yet find the guy attractive (if that is all they do)




If they unfollow and or block the guy then they simply don’t like the guy.

[Asker]

What if they just follow the guy just because?

[Danny_dan92]

Girls do this. I don’t overthink

[Asker]

So if a girl followed a guy back it was for a reason?

[Danny_dan92]

Like I said. Typically girls follow guys they find attractive. It’s the same for us guys that follow girls, or in general.

We follow people we like and or find interesting

[Asker]

Got it. Does this apply for every social media or just Instagram?

[Danny_dan92]

Everywhere

[Asker]

I think it's a little different if they followed you first and you followed back right? They weren't really thinking about you.

[Danny_dan92]

Doesn’t matter

[Asker]

Why doesn't it matter?

[Danny_dan92]

I think the point I made earlier didn’t register

[ProbablyClueless]

Excellent question. I would honestly prefer it if women would just say what was on their minds instead of creating this weird, awkward, shitty game of hide and seek, and being needlessly difficult until you stop trying.

I think it's because "go along to get along" is drilled hardcore into women, but there's no excuse for the behavior, at point.

[Anonymous]

They enjoy the attention. This isn't rocket science. Pretty simple. They don't want to talk to you. These women equate the amount of attention they get to thier self worth. Which is why the worst ones you see on here for example posting sexually suggestive questions. Because to these types of women there is no such thing as good and bad attention, just attention. It's pretty sad actually.

[Asker]

What if she doesn't care about the guy's attention and only follows him because he follows her?

[Opinion Owner]

Well now you're changing the question. Why did he follow her?

Point i'm making is people like attention. Some more than others. Some women want to know a guy. Some women want a guy to KNOW OF her. See the distinction?

[Asker]

He followed her because he still has lingering feelings for her from the past. I don't know why she followed back.

I get what you're saying. I know a lot of women love attention even from guys they don't like.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Because ignoring you is either, just don't do anything and it's that simple

[Asker]

What are you trying to say?

[ChicoFromThe305]

I meant it's easy*

[Asker]

So the guy should just ignore them back?

[ChicoFromThe305]

They should just move on, if she isn't interested just find someone else that might

[Sameone]

Because they will need you later 😉

[Asker]

For what? If a person is short with you and has no interest in you at all it makes sense to cut all ties

[Sameone]

Because you are going to be plan B

[Asker]

Even if they made it clear that they aren't interested in the guy?

[jahaims]

So they can get attention

[Asker]

What if I don't give them the attention?

[BarryLiverstone]

Many people feel like blocking is rude

[Asker]

I understand. If someone is messaging you and you never respond, it makes no sense to continue following that person

[BarryLiverstone]

There is no penalty in still following them. Plus guys can get notifications when that person posts new content

[BarryLiverstone]

Also remember many girls are subtle or they test guys.. maybe she ignores him to see how much effort he will give

[Asker]

How to tell if the girl is playing mind games as you mentioned or simply not interested?

[BarryLiverstone]

You judge that over time. See her patterns and how she shares things. Same way you tell if a guy is a player