Am I bothering her even though im giving her space?

[Anonymous]

i haven't hung out or really talked with my crush in the last 2 weeks and out of nowhere on a Sunday she texted me saying I've made her last 2 school years better than her 1st two years. on Monday she didn't text me at all. on Tuesday she texted good morning and didn't respond to my messages after that. then on Wednesday she said was mentally tired and exhausted from school. then on Thursday she said she was annoyed at everything and then left me on delivered again and out of nowhere said sorry. the whole week i was basically asking her if she was ok or if she needed anything and she would never respond. then i texted her if we could talk and she said what i meant by that and then i told her and she left me on seen, then i texted her after that and she left me on delivered the whole day

[Oliverlogan263]

Ouch bro, that sounds frustrating. It kinda seems like she's pulling away a bit even though she said you made her school years better.

Some things to consider - She could be going through stuff offline that has nothing to do with you. School stress or fam issues or whatever can totally tank someone's mood.

Also, repeatedly texting when she's clearly not responding much may feel like too much pressure. Girls don't usually like feeling crowded or watched.

My advice would be to back off messaging for a bit and give her space if she says she needs it. Checking in just once in a while to say hi is cool, but no need to be up her phone 24/7.

Who knows, she may come around again when she's feeling less overwhelmed. And if not, at least you didn't annoy her by bugging her too hard when she already said she's tired, you feel?

Tough situation, but I think pulling back a little respectfully is the move here. She'll appreciate you not making things harder on her, trust. Hope her mood turns around soon man.

[HateyouxD]

ShesNOT interested