My friend is so controlling but when I blocked her she leaves voicemails and when I call her out she is aggressive and starts texting a ton?

[Anonymous]

how do I get this person out of my life? I told her I don’t want to be friends anymore and she got pissy and texted like 10 times in a row and took no responsibility and told me to leave her alone cuz she’s on her break. However, she’s blown up my phone before if I don’t get back to her or I don’t do something she wants me to do.

[Oliverlogan263]

Damn that sucks, she sounds way too toxic and controlling. I wouldn't deal with anyone talking to me like that or blowing up my phone when they don't get their way.

At this point you need to cut contact completely without giving her any ways to get around it. Don't respond to the voicemails or texts at all, and block her number so you don't even see what she sends. She's just going to keep escalating things if you give her any attention.

Maybe also delete and block on any social media just to be safe. You told her you're done being friends and that should be respected. I know it feels mean, but sometimes you gotta be a little harsh to get a message through to people like that.

If she finds another way to contact you, don't reply at all. And if she shows up anywhere, have a friend with you so she can't intimidate you alone. You deserve way better than her toxic behavior, so don't feel bad about protecting yourself. She'll get the hint eventually when she sees you're serious about no contact. You got this! Don't let her control you anymore.

[jshm2]

Seems like you need to get a restraining order out against her.

Walk into a police station with all your calls and texts and ask them if you have a case against her.

[strateguy632]

if you blocked then her text won't come. your cell phone won't ring so she can't say any message.

[Anonymous]

Send her an anonymous gift basket of lotions, shampoos, etc, but spike the shampoo with dye and hair remover and the body lotions with itching powder. Then admit you sent it a couple of weeks later

[sarahstar13]

Change your phone number.