Girls, what do you prefer for man?

[Anonymous]

hairy chest and beard man or hairless chest and shaved man

[Taniisokay]

An educated man with morals and believes in one God. Beard or without one is last thing in my mind. But here my country men wears beards.

[Asker]

yes you are right !! but physical appearence is also important. you are young and good looking so you dont go on a date just becaues beleiver and high moral man who is 45 years wihtout hair and skiny.. right? if you are lets meet. :d

[Taniisokay]

I can't. I am Muslim.

[Asker]

so you marry just with referance to others?

[Taniisokay]

I didn't understood your question.

[Asker]

what you can't do? you can't meet me or you can't go on a date 45 years old bold skiny ugly guy but he is very believer and relaigus muslim*

[Taniisokay]

First you aren't Muslim and you will expect to have sex with who you date which against Islam faith to have sex outside marriage. Secondly 45 old Muslim man is too old for me. I can't marry no Muslim person. You will not understand because you probably believe that religions are jokes.

[Asker]

first you should ask my religion second if the topic is serious i will be serious. also i m not 45 bold and skiny guy :D i was just trying to understand that you are honest or no. than you should have said appearance is important but character and religion is as important as appearance. it is not forbidden only in islam faith it is also forbidden all religions to have sex without marriage. yes you can not marry but if you were a man it was not important which religion to believe you married with. For example Marria was not muslim but she married Probhet. right. have ever asked your self why man can but woman can not. Is there any proof from Kuran or sunneh about this?

[Taniisokay]

Just because the children will take the husband's religion. If for Example I get married to no Muslim then my children will be no Muslims because their father is no Muslim. Men can marry no Muslim women. But If the person reverts to Islam then I can marry them. Hopefully that answers your question.

[Asker]

I newer heard that the children take their fathers religion. If so Prophet Ibrahim should not be Prophet. The reason is probably different. As you know in psychically men are stornger then women. if muslim woman wants to do necessity of islam and her not muslim husband does not let her to do it caused problem for her. but if you tell about linkage you are correct. also it culturel thinks because if it linkage continues only men it is not logic also..

[Taniisokay]

Not only children takes their father's religion but also habits. Muslims don't drink alcohol nor takes drugs. Many houses where mother is not a drugs consumer but her children happen to be drugs addicts like their father is so common now days...

[Asker]

we are not talking about what society is doing we are talking about what islam say.. does islam say children get their fathers religion. I think no. Islam say all poeple born without sins and as a muslim. when he/she reach adolescent (puberty) they have to follow God rules. anyway you say you are muslim but you seem you dont think deeply what means being a muslim.. It seems you mixed culturel traditional to sharia... and you were saying that you are not muslim to me.. I think i m more muslim than you.. but i like you. we can talk about this kind of serious issue which i m not here for this but i like it..

[Taniisokay]

Islam doesn't says anything about children taking their father's religion. All I was trying to say is that Islam encourages ladies to marry a Muslim man like her for a whole Muslim household.

You thinking that you are more Muslim than is nonsense if you aren't Muslim yourself.

I am not perfect Muslim as we all have our shortcomings but Allah is all merciful. I try to be the best I can and my intentions are sincere. Have a nice day or evening.

[Asker]

woow you are angry.. you did not ask that i m Muslim or not. i think islam encourages people not to be prejudice for the ideas. And I asked you have you ever think why islam encourages muslim women to marry with muslim man and muslim man can marry without concidering this issue. I m not judging Islam. I m just trying to learn it and i have an idea why islam do this. so you said you are religiose person and i asked you to compare with my idea. but you explained what society is doing etc etc.. I asked direct questions. Islam has straight rules but it can be maintained.. anyway miss religiose friend as you said have a nice day or evening.

[Taniisokay]

I am not angry. What made you say that? If you are serious about having a conversation in private like a real polite conversation and respectful I am happy with that. If you were Muslim then you wouldn't ask me those questions because all muslims all have the same universal knowledge about many stuff that relates to our faith.

[Asker]

No i dont agree with you. why wouldn't i ask these kind of questions. most muslims dont know what they are believing. They use islam to satisfy their sick minds. They link correct results with wrong reasons like you did. I said this one because first you say i m not allowed to marry nonmuslim guy because my children take their fathers religion and it is not correct. The reason is different. so if you tell this to other religion you teach them wrong things thats why i dont agree and i asked you several times. and you did not give proper answers. why islam does not allowed you to marry non muslim man?

[Taniisokay]

I didn't said that you aren't allow to ask question, i only speak on you claims to be more Muslim
Than me. For the restriction on Muslim women marrying non-Muslim men is rooted in the idea of preserving the faith and only ensuring the continuity of Islamic values within the family unit. And add too I am not teaching you something. I am giving you what I know and what I practice. I am not a scholar of Islam. I ain't got all the answer but know i am doing my best to provide the answers. If you ask me something that I don't know then I will tell you that I don't know. Don't worry about me I am doing my best to learn more about my faith. And my friend if your ain't convinced then that's cool.

[Asker]

Firstly I m not worry about you and I dont care! Becuase it is between you and Allah.

Secondly I care how you represent Islam. i dont say you i believe GOD or pray to GOD more than you, Only Allah knows what inside people heart so I dont try to convince you about this issue. I was trying to say if you declare you are muslim then you have to be carreful. because it is another level. you start to represent what you define yourself. Thats why i said i m more muslim than you.
Third If it is so why muslim man can marry to non muslim woman

[Taniisokay]

I got you. I don't why muslims man can marry to non muslims women.

[Asker]

Thank you. Actualy this rule is not preserving the faith and only ensuring the continuity of Islamic values within the family unit. this rule is to protect muslim woman and keep safe and be sure that they can pray without any fear. so islam always protect people. islam faith does not need to be protected. Allah saves this. Islamic values does not need to be protected. We need to be protected by islam. Islam say Wife always obey and follow his husband after Allah. Man are stronger than women it is obvious so this rule protect woman for unwanted bad behavior.
Thats why this rule is only for women.

[Taniisokay]

Thanks. That makes sense. 😊

[Asker]

I m happy for that...

[Jennifer604]

What the hell did I just read?

[Asker]

@Jennifer604 ahahah dont worry. two muslim discussed for unnecessary things for you. how is your day. here is sunny and i m full of energy. i hope you are too.

[Anonymous]

Yes to chest hair, no to facial hair.

[AmyHew1tt]

No beared, definitely no chest hair.

[Jennifer604]

The latter.