I’m a Woman, but I’ve been labeled a Tomboy all my Life?

[Anonymous]

So basically this post is about how I’ve rarely been a Girly girl! and honestly entering my 20’s I’d love to start knowing how, I don’t have many Girlfriends only One, we’ve known each other since middle school, but she isn’t the best to get advice from. I’m just wondering how to “Girl”? I rarely shaved, or did my makeup, and if I tried… lord it was a mess! I’m really just asking for help on how to “Woman” I know it sounds weird 😂 but I don’t know any other way to put it.

[SueShe]

Nothing wrong with being a tomboy. People place stupid tags on others simply because they don't fit in a standard description or frame that society has created.

I am just like you. I don't shave or put makeup on. I don't really care what others are saying. I am living primarily for myself and not for others.

I feel that you are uncomfortable being labelled a tomboy. Just don't. It is not up to you to adapt to the world. If the world cannot accept you the way you are, then tough beans for them.

Being who you are makes you unique. Being unique is what is fantastic, not being yet just another anonymous person in the crowd.

[Anonymous]

It's okay. Have patience and keep trying taking small baby steps. For example for someday just try to work over clothes, other day you can try shaving in proper way other day you can try styling your hair. Do it patiently and take your time. You would be confident doing it and you may manage to style as you want to. Take help from youtube videos.

[Anonymous]

I hear ya, it takes work.