Is it normal if my friend acts like she loves me as a friend but she does not invite or want me to sleep at her place. She is single?

[Anonymous]

[DishLady]

Why do you want to sleep at your friend's place? That's her private space and she doesn't have to have people there if she doesn't want to. Why are you so hung up on it? It's not a usual request that friends make of each other. My two CLOSEST friends live abroad and when I go see them I book a hotel every time. There's just no reason to impose on others… it's rude.

[SeriouslyNotSerious]

Tell me you're a lesbian, without telling me you're a lesbian..

[slatyb]

Yes, that's normal. It's unusual for adults who live near each other to have sleep-overs.

[dustybiker2]

I stopped doing sleep overs in grade school..

[laly520]

yes normal