It’s a deep moment of self-reflection to really discover this. None of us know you so therefore we can only offer crumbs of advice.
Maybe dress different. Change your social circle or where you are meeting men. Break out of your comfort zone and develop some confidence - martial arts are among the best ways. Identify the traits in guys that you are attracting and/or attracted to and learn to ID those traits early on and then avoid them like cancer.
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Because people with psychopathic tendencies prefer an easy target?
Being quiet may be interpreted as someone who will also stay quiet to abuse. But I think being quiet has nothing to do with it. I think it is a question of poorly drawn boundaries.
Because she’s quiet and seems like a weak link — easy to pick off, easy to manipulate and treat poorly, etc.
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Because they take your quietness as a sign that you're weak and submissive and easily manipulated. Which is what toxic men like.
You have also attracted many guys who aren't "toxic" but you overlooked them because they aren't Chad.
She gives off the energy of someone who doesn't enforce her own boundaries.
Hmm must be a really good looking woman maybe? Thats as shallow as I can guess it as a man thinking of other mens reactions as cause and effect
They are more likely to take initiative when talking to a female. It is easier to flatter a shy person.
Because she's quiet so they see her as submissive and a pushover. They don't feel threatened by her
I don't know but I bet you love the attention be honest you do right
Because they think they can manipulate and dominate her.
We don’t want our bitches to talk about what we did after.
Are u letting themselves to express their feelings over you?
Look deep into the mirror find yourself and figure it out
what are you seeing as toxic in guys?
Predators see her as easy prey
Maybe ur nit as quiet as u think lol
She's immature.
She is seen as vulnerable.
The law of attraction says like attracts like
Cuz toxic guys just want to fuck
Easy target
She's pretty.
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