Why would a quiet girl attract so many toxic guys?

[Anonymous]

[Flatmanlewis]

It’s a deep moment of self-reflection to really discover this. None of us know you so therefore we can only offer crumbs of advice.


Maybe dress different. Change your social circle or where you are meeting men. Break out of your comfort zone and develop some confidence - martial arts are among the best ways. Identify the traits in guys that you are attracting and/or attracted to and learn to ID those traits early on and then avoid them like cancer.

[Sonorous]

Because people with psychopathic tendencies prefer an easy target?

[JustAGirll55]

Being quiet may be interpreted as someone who will also stay quiet to abuse. But I think being quiet has nothing to do with it. I think it is a question of poorly drawn boundaries.

[DishLady]

Because she’s quiet and seems like a weak link — easy to pick off, easy to manipulate and treat poorly, etc.

[PointlessNonsenseGuy]

Because they take your quietness as a sign that you're weak and submissive and easily manipulated. Which is what toxic men like.

[itsclearlynicholas]

Hmm must be a really good looking woman maybe? Thats as shallow as I can guess it as a man thinking of other mens reactions as cause and effect

[itsclearlynicholas]

Pretty faces, pretty attractive bodies, even guys will stop and stare if they see what they go ooohh 🤭🤭👀👀👀. I don't wanna be blunt

[DextroShade]

You have also attracted many guys who aren't "toxic" but you overlooked them because they aren't Chad.

[Asker]

No I haven’t

[DextroShade]

🧢🧢🧢

[Asker]

It’s true I haven’t found no good guys

[Asker]

I also I can’t care about looks it’s about the personality

[ProbablyClueless]

She gives off the energy of someone who doesn't enforce her own boundaries.

[KostasKouvalis]

Because she's quiet so they see her as submissive and a pushover. They don't feel threatened by her

[jahaims]

They are more likely to take initiative when talking to a female. It is easier to flatter a shy person.

[Bklynbadboy12]

I don't know but I bet you love the attention be honest you do right

[Asker]

Nope

[Dongie]

Because they think they can manipulate and dominate her.

[OddBeMe]

We don’t want our bitches to talk about what we did after.

[Zayeem]

Are u letting themselves to express their feelings over you?

[Anonymous]

Look deep into the mirror find yourself and figure it out

[Asker]

Seriously I’m Sad as hell you think this a some type of joke

[Opinion Owner]

No why you got the wrong opinion

[Asker]

😑😑😑

[Opinion Owner]

You have to tell me what’s going on for me to help you out

[Asker]

I keep attracting mentally unable guys, users, perverted men, and toxic men who lack request for women. I’m a quiet girl and inexperienced with guys.

[Opinion Owner]

How do you dress? How do you act? How’s your personality?

[Asker]

I dress basic and I act nervous and quiet. My personality is shy, nervous, quiet, doesn’t talk to much unless spoken to.

[Opinion Owner]

Where are you meeting these men at?

[Asker]

I mainly wear jeans and shirts. My shirts are oversized sometimes.

[Asker]

School, my job, in stores, from friends, and in real life

[Asker]

I wear a lot of black clothing

[Opinion Owner]

I don’t know maybe they think that you’re goth or something try something different

[Asker]

What should I try different?

[Opinion Owner]

Wear lighter clothing maybe white or green and blue

[Asker]

I do wear that sometimes and more suggestions

[Asker]

I meant do you have more suggestions?

[Opinion Owner]

How do you wear your hair?

[Asker]

I wear wigs because I suffer from hair loss

[Opinion Owner]

Oh I see

[Asker]

See what?

[Opinion Owner]

What color are the wigs are they normal or are they wild, pink and red?

[Asker]

Black wigs not wild

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe they can tell you’re wearing a wig I don’t know. The only thing that I can think of is people like librarians if you have a librarian look, that brings everybody to the table all kinds of characters.

[Asker]

Okay

[boobliker]

what are you seeing as toxic in guys?

[Asker]

They call women bitches and think it’s okay to hit women. They below women for no reason.

[boobliker]

I would say you are mixing with the wrong people, change where you hangout

[Asker]

I’m normal all by myself

[LiamJHayden]

Predators see her as easy prey

[Fuentes]

Maybe ur nit as quiet as u think lol

[Asker]

How?

[Asker]

Wym nit?

[Fuentes]

Not,**

[Asker]

Oh I’m very quiet and I don’t have any friends

[Fuentes]

Lol I don't know I know many girls who claim to be shy and quiet but really they're not and be Hella flirty

[Asker]

I’m not

[Anonymous]

She's immature.

[Asker]

How?

[noohair]

She is seen as vulnerable.

[In_Trance]

The law of attraction says like attracts like

[Anonymous]

Cuz toxic guys just want to fuck

[Hellur991]

Easy target

[bobby_bush_eater]

She's pretty.

[RedInnocent69]

Quiet hotness.