If you don't really talk to a girl is it better to message her happy mother's day on social media or text her if you have access to both?

[Anonymous]

[jennifer_bloom]

I prefer social media cause its more respectful of their space but if it is somebody who is in a relationship - I would avoid contact.

[Asker]

I think she is single. I'm just unsure if I text her would that creep her out since we haven't talked in years. She did a couple months back confirm that her phone number is still the same

[jennifer_bloom]

I think open liners about non controversial topics are fine. Don't ask her how she feels about other religions, but you could ask her if she heard about a cool news tidbit or how she was enjoying life after the pandemic or if she did anything cool recently. You want to dismantle suspicion as your first course of action, once she realizes you are not a threat to her peace and comfort, you can discuss more personal topics.

[Asker]

What would be an acceptable opening message especially if I want to wish her happy mother's day?

[jennifer_bloom]

You could say, Hi, (name), I hope you are having an amazing Mother's Day today and I am here if you want somebody to listen to you. You and your mom are both amazing people and I would love to hear about how your special day went when you are free. Just looking to celebrate positive vibrations this week. I am in a good space right now and I thought it would be a good time to make new friends.

[DishLady]

If she’s a social media person who likes to be flashy so it there. If she’s a more private person just text her.

[Anonymous]

If I know her well enough to have her number I'll text her

[Opinion Owner]

This is your second question about this lol just tell her man

[Asker]

I just don't want to invade someone's space. I have her number because I used to talk to her in the past. This was years ago and although she confirmed that her number didn't change I'm not sure it's the best decision.

[Opinion Owner]

Just text her and say happy mother's day

[HateyouxD]

Did you text her?👀

[Asker]

I did and she didn't respond

[HateyouxD]

Damn I'm sorry

[Asker]

She responded. She said thank you. Do I need to respond to that?

[HateyouxD]

You could ask her what she's doing today but based on your history I'd just pet it be and text her another time

[HateyouxD]

Let it be*