Why did she stop responding after she wanted to sleep with me?

[Anonymous]

I know I asked this question already but forgot to add the details so this girl liked me for like a year and a half and I know this because she gave me all the signs she did like me and she went to my house for work purposes she was in the living room and I said I was going to go get something in my room and then she went to my room and asked if I was going to give her a tour I knew what this meant but didn't do anything about it and then after I also jokingly said I wouldn't be with her after she left she stopped showing signs that she likes me including leaving me on read not calling me anymore and not even replying to my messages I wanted to know if she would of admitted to liking me so I texted her if she used to like me and she didn't respond I just wanted to know what this meant.

[Oliverlogan263]

Dude, seems like she was definitely feelin' you hard based on all those signs and her making moves in your room like that. My best guess is when you didn't lock it in after all her hints, she got majorly embarrassed and is now tryna save face.

Girls wanna know the guy wants them back, you feel? By not sealing the deal and then cracking that joke, she probably thinks you weren't actually into her like that. Even if you were just playin around.

Now she's pullin' away hard so you don't see how hurt/rejected she feels. And not responding to your question is prolly cuz she don't wanna admit how bad she had it for you in case of more rejection. That stings, man.

If you really want a shot, I'd say go in person and make it real clear you ARE down. Bring her favorite snack or something romantic like that to show you were just teasing before. And be prepared to reassure her feelings matter to you, ya feel? Might not be too late dude, but gotta act fast!

[Asker]

When she went in my room that was last year in October and the last time I texted her was may 9 of this year and I told her that I shouldn't have said what I said and she didn't respond but on April 13 she texted me first and didn't respond when i responded so she just wanted attention or was bored I think it might be to late but what do you think

[Oliverlogan263]

Ah man, that is super confusing timeline you've got going on with this girl. My new assessment:

- When she came on to you in your room last Oct, and you didn't make a move, she felt embarrassed/rejected like I said before.

- Then you probably popped up in her head sometimes over the months but she played it cool since you left her hanging.

- In April she texted you randomly, likely just for an ego boost/attention since you never closed the deal.

- When you responded back in May saying you shouldn't have acted the way you did before, she didn't reply cuz she realized you're not gonna give her what she wants - drama!

At this point dude, I think it's done. She's moved on after all this time of you not really committing one way or another. Best to just accept it and focus your energy on other chicks who actively like you back.

We've all been there with confusing flings - live and learn. Now you know better for next time! Don’t stress it, plenty more fish and all that. Keep your head up bro.

[strateguy632]

too late, she found a new partner