She flanked on me?

[magicturtle]

I asked my co worker out for lunch, and she said yes. We agreed to meet each other, and I was waiting for her and she was surprised like I never asked and she said:" Oh I can't today lets do another time. My question is for you all girls: why would you do such thing, if you don't want me to see you just tell me, why play those games and flank without even telling me. Unless she never understood it was today, but I am sure she did. What should I do next? suppose she is offering a different day, and if not just move on? Honestly I am still trying to understand why she did that.. Is she a player? is she playing games? is she not that intersted? even though I am a guy who doesn't really get exctied from this stuff, this time it was even too much for me... :(

[Anonymous]

She was probably busy. Or maybe felt insincerity from your side

[magicturtle]

she said yes and smiles to me all the time, and we have known each other from work for a year now. I don't agree with you, but thanks for the reply

[Opinion Owner]

Or she wasn’t hungry. I am sure she felt insincerity from your side

[magicturtle]

I mean we know each other for over a year and im pretty sure she knows I like her, but I am kinda flirty around girls, so maybe she thinks im a player?

[Opinion Owner]

I think she doesn’t want a characterless guy. If a guy flirts with everyone it means he’s insincere to everyone most importantly himself.