Why do some people get frequently underestimated?

[HappyWoman34]

I find that I’m frequently mistaken for a bimbo. I think that in my case, it’s because I am bubbly, have big eyes and big breasts and I like to see the best in people. Also I don’t like to show off. Even I thought I was stupid. I was assessed by a psychologist and found to have a high IQ, when I was assessed for and diagnosed with Autism. It’s something I don’t share offline.

[IslaTheWitch]

I'm autistic, closed off, and work in men occupation... am I underestimated? only if someone wants to underestimate me... autism takes a lot but very often gives a high IQ in return... those who can use it never will be underestimated

and I wrote those who can use it because it depends on the autism level and treats if you can use your brain or you live as its hostage...

[FreyaRed]

Stereotypes and it's a part of human nature to belittle mental abilities of others before taking a second look.
I like always the moment of cognitive dissonance when stereotypes about me don't fit the reality

[DrPepper12]

I've stopped doing that thankfully. It's dangerous. I think manipulative or egotistical people persist in doing that so they can feel smart or powerful. After seeing thousands of students I underestimate NO ONE ANYMORE! people can fuck you up BAD if you do!

[NathanDavis]

I try my best not to do that...

but I grew up into sports

[HappyWoman34]

Well, not everyone is the same 😊.

[Anonymous]

The world isn’t fair. I got a “intellectual” look to me so I was often overestimated for my intelligence. I am smart and have above average IQ but I am not a genius. I know that.

But then I was underestimated for my physical toughness. I was involved in wrestling, jiu jitsu and mma for a better part of my life. I had guys always underestimating me in the gym and I actually liked it. Because when it came sparring time I they were in for a nasty surprise. I was pretty good and won and lot more then I lost.

But I’ve had to feos with a lot go bullies when I was much younger. I toughened up in my adulthood but I hated being a target because I looked intellectual and nerdy. I had a very rough childhood with this. And I wasn’t athletic nor knew how to fight back then.

[HappyWoman34]

Sounds tough

[handsomelad70]

OK, but you eventually learned to handle yourself. A boxer's son such as I ALWAYS knew how to take care of myself should such a situation arise.

[Opinion Owner]

@handsomelad70 if I wasn’t bullied I would of never joined the wrestling team and later MMA.

But not to sound like a bitch but horrible experiences I had in my childhood did leave a very bad impression on me. It’s my job to deal with it. But it’s easier said then done. I don’t wish for any kid to hace to go though what I experienced back then.

[handsomelad70]

I don't know but strongly suspect social media has made kids even more cruel than when I was a lad.

[JacobJordan]

It is by design people underestimate me. I prefer that when people see me they make assumptions quickly because once made they are screwed. Very difficult for people to change assumptions even when facing contradictory evidence. I keep a low profile, i dress relaxed, I work around my houses, avoid large public settings. If I do attend public settings i ensure I look like I am uncomfortable draws less attention and helps people make those silly assumptions. I avoid showcasing my strength and intellect so people will assume I am not as strong as I am or as smart as I am. Has saved me and my family on more than 1 occasion.

[avery58]

@JacobJordan kind of. Not all women bleed after their first time because some women accidentally break their hymen playing sports or masturbating. Also, I'm not sure about it but I heard that some women bleed the first few times they have sex instead of just the one time where they lose their virginity

[avery58]

Ugh what the hell! I meant to reply this to another answer I saw on my discover page, sorry about that

[avery58]

Actually I think I meant to reply it to you though but on a different question about virginity

[JacobJordan]

@avery58 think you posted this on the wrong question lol. And yes all of that is true. Generally speaking though a virgin bleeds. There is also the fact it is generally not pleasant the first several times. My wife and I were each others firsts and our first time ended up taking multiple rounds and several hours before we both got the desired results and it was rather painful for both of us

[SeriouslyNotSerious]

The problem is not on the person being underestimated, but rather on those toxic and judgmental people.

[Dongie]

I say that is one advantage to use. I love to be underestimated. Unless of course it is a field that they have me.

[Dargil]

Its it is a form of bigotry. Forming beliefs about people and then judging them by those beliefs.

[PointlessNonsenseGuy]

Are you sure you get underestimated? Maybe people are so distracted by your giant breasts that they don't notice anything else about you.

[OddBeMe]

Because it’s the safe bet. With most people. Prove me wrong,

[genericname85]

so one reason is "halo effect". that's a psychological phenomenon where one observation will bleed over into assessment of other things. so for example if someone is percieved as ugly, they will also be percieved as less competent.

[handsomelad70]

Looks, colour, perhaps attire.

[TonyMetal___86]

You're a good and kind girl miss kat 😌

[whistlingwh0res]

Well all men r dog

[Anonymous]

selfishness, arrogance..