Do guys pay more attention to bigger women than average size woman?

[Anonymous]

[4ngelic]

average size obv. some guys like big girls but that's not at all the majority. i've been borderline underweight to fat. get the most attention when my bmi is between 19 & 22, but still get a lot up to a bmi of 27. but after that, it decreased significantely. at my worst (my highest bmi was 30-31) i still did get some attention but it was not as much at all as when i'm thick but more normal or skinny, and also the people who gave me that attention weren't as attractive

[RingOfFire]

Interesting. Do you keep a diary of BMI versus male attention on a daily basis? Sounds like your life is a scientific research paper. 🙂

[tryingitagain]

I believe that all women of all body types get attention, but I do believe that today, bigger women get more positive attention than ever before.

[Lliam]

I'm not. I notice particularly fine-looking women with great posture, nice boobs, slender waists, .63 to.67 waist to hip ratios, round asses, and exquisite legs. Thick or heavy isn't my thing.

Something that all guys notice are big boobs, even if big boobs aren't their particular preference. Big boobs are just noticeable and guys go "Dang!" The same with a good waist to hip ratio and a bouncy bubble butt.

[Flatmanlewis]

It’s very individualistic, but I think if you were working on a bell-curve you would find most men do not prefer bigger nor particularly thin. The bulk of men tend to prefer the more moderate & typical sized women with varying preferences between which taper off as size approaches the extremes.

[Finchie40]

Only if he prefers bigger women , everyone has their own preferences of what they like and don’t like so not everyone is going to be on the same page with things

[genericname85]

depends. black men are typically more attracted to bigger women. white men typically aren't. not being racist. that's just the statistical averages.

[Vegasrunner]

@genericname85 Please highlight one famous black man w/ married to a Fat women.

[genericname85]

@Vegasrunner do you understand the difference between averages and individuals?

[Vegasrunner]

@genericname85 Obviously, but that's not relevant to the question I asked. Name one famous black man married to a fat women

[genericname85]

@Vegasrunner the relevancy to your question is that "famous individuals" is the opposite of "averages", which is what i was speaking about. i was not speaking about famous individuals, because it wouldn't offer any evidence for or against what i was initially speaking about.

[genericname85]

@Vegasrunner I'm not talking about individuals. We're talking about averages. If you wanna talk about individuals, go make another question.

[Vegasrunner]

@genericname85 Now I understand your confusion. Your actual statement was "Black men are typically more attracted to bigger women" Which leads to the obvious question of How would you know that? If you are black and like bigger women then you would be speaking from personal experience. If you are basing it off what have seen that is called antedoctal. If you believe your hypothesis is true, then the best way to prove it would be to take a general pool of black men, and see how man of them have chosen bigger women. Since your claim is that they "typically" like bigger women then that means that in a subset of Black men that have options you should see a percentage of black men that have voluntarily chosen "bigger women" If you can't then that might men that your claim is poorer men no matter the race prefer bigger women because that is all they can attract. I hope this helps.

[genericname85]

@Vegasrunner you know such things by looking at the respective stats in large scale social surveys on human courtship behavior. you do NOT know that by looking at celebrities and what they do. it has nothing to do with my personal experience, cause personal experience is insignificant if you're looking at statistical facts about society. you keep saying that you understand the difference between the individual and the general but you keep demonstrating that you're not getting it. i am not saying anything about "who's a proper man" or "what anyone should do". i'm looking at cold hard facts and i do not have a certain agenda like you clearly do.

[genericname85]

@Vegasrunner same with other stats. if i am stating that on average black people do worse in socio economic metrics, i'm not saying "they chose to be poorer". i'm simply stating an objective fact and i don't care how you feel about it cause you know what they say: facts don't care about your feelings.

[Vegasrunner]

@genericname85 I understand your confusion. There is data you could use to justify your socio economic position, do you have any to justify your dating hypothesis?

[genericname85]

@Vegasrunner yeah i have but it doesn't matter to you cause you'll just say i'm confused anyway. that seems to be your main argument cause you don't know what you're talking about. i'm not gonna cast pearls before the swine here. get lost. if you'd be interested in the truth you wouldn't keep asking about the example of a celebrity doing that. that's just insanely idiotic and insults anyones intellect. don't expect me to treat you with respect after how you've acted in this conversaiton.

[genericname85]

@Vegasrunner and by the way it's not "my socio economic position". you're taking my words to sound smart but you're using them so they don't make sense so you achieve the opposite.

[genericname85]

@Vegasrunner had you shown genuine curiosity from the getgo, i would have shown you the relevant studies and explained to you how these large scale surveys work but instead you're constantly trying to drag this conversation into normative shit talk instead of just sticking with facts and you chose to insult me, while displaying that you are not versed in this topic. so you're not getting the nice treatment.

[Anonymous]

Only to the extent that we're paying attention for the purposes of not getting run over or bumping into an obstacle while walking. In terms of for attraction purposes, thin/fit gets more attention than average which gets more attention than bigger.

If you're only talking boob size on an fit girl, then yes--bigger gets more attention than average.

[Pyres]

There's definitely an appeal in taller women, height is rarely an issue. If we're talking BMI, aim for the "Normal" to "Overweight" range. Anything above that will give the impression that you lack self-discipline and self-restraint. If you're seen exercising or prepping healthy meals, you'll be able to counter that stigma and get some positive attention out of it.

[OlderAndWiser]

Most men are NOT more attracted to bigger women. That is wishful thinking and a myth perpetuated by bigger women.

[Chazmatazz269]

In the US, “average” women ARE “bigger” women. The average dress size in the US is 16-18. That’s not small.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Only when they're in the way. What does this question even mean?

[JacobJordan]

Very few guys want whales. So no. Most guys look at women that are actually attractive not women that are 2 doughnuts away from a heart attack

[Peridot25]

I feel the same way about men who look like tubs of lard. I rather an attractive man than someone who looks like they can also die of an heart attack.

[JacobJordan]

@Peridot25 exactly

[Nikki1989]

Seems that way. I attracted far more attention when I was much heavier.

[tryingitagain]

Good or bad attention?

[ananias55]

I gave them the same attention but when it comes to romance I always choose slimmer women.

[Avicenna]

Guys pay attention to women they find attractive.

[paledreams]

I pay more attention to 20s women who are petite, pale and slim-fit. 👅😛😋👀🥲

[paledreams]

Think 5 feet tall or shorter 🥳

[wiltingrosepetal]

Good thing you said this on this app. On any other, people would start calling you a p3do (I'm not kidding 💀)

[paledreams]

@wiltingrosepetal 20s aged women, who happen to be 5 foot or shorter, I don't get it. Enjoy your weekend sir

[paledreams]

*typo ignore sir, ma'am

[paledreams]

@wiltingrosepetal have a nice weekend ma'am, madam, I'm 30 and I'd only date a woman who's 20-30. 31 potentially aged max lol. Minimum 20 aged to 30 years

[wiltingrosepetal]

Oh, you don't understand! Short, thin, young? You basically want a child 😱

Obviously I'm not of this opinion, just parroting how insane people act online lol. But people really say this, and think of short women as little kids

[paledreams]

@wiltingrosepetal again my answer above and further is "20s (emphasis) women (emphasis) who happen to be petite with big tits and a slim stomach). Lol 😆 I have met many women who are 20s+ and were slim and short for their stature. Go figure 🧬😛 genes

[Tim2nice]

The ones who are attracted to large women do, the rest don’t

[thisAppIsGarbage]

Oh Hell no. If they are over 115 lbs I don't even bother with them. They have nothing to offer me in life other than dealing with their health issues.

[CrabCakes11]

115? Lol. You do realize a woman who is any taller than 5’5 won’t weight that unless they’re underweight, right? You’re delusional

[thisAppIsGarbage]

My wife is 5'5 and 115. So is every girl I ever fucked with. My daughter is 5'5 and 115. I'm sorry you are fat

[dolemite58]

Depends on the guy and if he’s broke or not lol

[Notherndude84]

I like plus size women, especially if they’re curvy.

[MatureMan40]

It depends. Not everyone is the same. Some people love really bigger women, some like slim ones.

[MrDaveAPSI]

Why do women think 5'9" and lower, for a man, is short. It's actually considered avg.

[Anonymous]

No offense, but to the NO, HELL. Although my cuz and some friends were into that. I want just above a skeleton butt for that ass and titties.

[Anonymous]

A few men prefer bigger women, but most prefer average.

[longjump89]

All I know is, men will only receive their first flower during their funeral.

[Billlewis]

Nothing beats a sexy fat butt.

[Flyergirl]

Guys are drawn to attractive women.

[Anonymous]

average to chubby... but I'm admire little average as well

[daemonBot]

They're easier to see, so I guess...

[RingOfFire]

🤣🤣🤣

[Kelley1]

I am certain they in invisible.

[blueonblack22]

I know I don’t.

[Danny_dan92]

This doesn’t even make sense

[RingOfFire]

I prefer slim petite women.

[SotiCoto]

The gentlemen of good taste do.

[Anonymous]

No they don’t.

[DreamLife7]

Yeah to laugh at them not with them🤣

[handsomelad70]

Bigger-BOOBED women, H**L YES !!!

[DextroShade]

No, they don't. Fat bitches are gross.

[Iron_Man]

No I am not into large women

[Anonymous]

Some of my bigger friends get more attention.

[IWILLPLEASEYOU]

I have been taught to pay attention to all women!

[Guyaskgirls6969]

hmmm sometimes yeaah sometimes no

[jjj101010]

Not personally

[PoorCoachNeedsMoney]

Yas queeeeeeeen!

[Anonymous]

well I like tall women and I am not alone.

[dudeinohio]

I do.

[RedInnocent69]

Not really.

[In_Trance]

Can't generalize

[Budheavy]

I do.

[hunterhan]

yepp