Do guys like bigger women?

[Anonymous]

Yes (explain)

No (explain)

It depends\other (explain)

[ak666]

I hate answering these types of questions since I'm afraid to offend, but I have found it difficult to develop a sexual attraction towards females whose BMI is higher than mine, for example.

It's not that I haven't tried. I've dated a girl who was both shorter and heavier than I was. She had a sweet personality but I just couldn't make myself so into her, especially in sexual contexts. I couldn't lift her up in bridal position without a struggle. Her body felt soft and round all over in ways that I didn't find as appealing as a body which is soft in certain places and firm in others. I wish I could have been more into her since she would have made a very nice girlfriend and she was really into me.

Aside from that I'm an outgoing type. I like hiking, rock climbing, dancing, swimming, and really energetic and animated forms of karaoke. I like it when a girl can join me in these activities with matching energy levels and she couldn't so much. Our dates were a lot less energetic and quiet in ways that had me wanting to jump around and run about.

The first girl I deeply fell for was a slim girl who had this inner child who tagged me and then started sprinting in the opposite direction (and she could run surprisingly fast and I had to struggle a bit to catch up to her). I loved that about her as she literally made me chase after her, only for me to tag her back and have her literally chase after me. Unless I met a bigger girl who could do the same, I can't imagine falling quite as deeply for her.

[dissolute_dog]

Haha how old were you and that first girl who played tag? xD

[ak666]

@dissolute_dog I think I was 24 and she was 23. Also on our first date, we went to a cafe and she rolled a piece of paper napkin down a straw and shot me in the head with it. At first I was a bit stunned since it seemed so immature, but then I found it so cute and did the same and shot her back. We had that kind of playful relationship.

[dissolute_dog]

LOL she sounds funny! Yeah it's great to find someone who can make you feel like 2 kids again, in times when it's not really necessary to be "grown-up" about things.

[ak666]

@dissolute_dog She was quite a blast. As another example, we went to a park one time and they had these boat rides for couples. I thought it'd be romantic and she'd be into riding the boat together. Instead she insisted that we ride in separate boats. She wanted to race me! :-D

I had the most fun dating her but one of the problems that hurt us in that long run was that immaturity (for both of us). We started living together and things went to hell after that, arguing endlessly over petty things with neither of us having the maturity to be the bigger person at the time.

Until that point though, she was one of the most fun girls I ever dated. We could be doing something mundane like just walking at a park and she'd find a way to make it exciting.

[dissolute_dog]

Ah I'm sorry it didn't work out, but I suppose it's all part of the learning process for both people. It's true that it's tough to find the balance between maturity and fun.

[Streamhopper]

Some guys do, yes. Some guys don't. It all depends on the guy and girl involved. I've known women who look really good with extra pounds, and wouldn't look good thin. I've known thin women who would look better with extra pounds. And everything in between. But in the end, it all comes down to personal attraction. So while the easy answer is yes, the more complicated version is "it depends".

[lostgirl_searching]

I voted for C because it all depends on the guys preference and also your definition what considered as " bigger women "
I'm 4'11" and weigh 210 and guys will still flirt and talk to me. Even when I use to weigh 250, guys will still seem to like me.
If you're talking about race as well? A few were Hispanics and Blacks, majority white.
My ex boyfriend didn't care about size.
My boyfriend who is white prefers big women but my boyfriend, ex boyfriend and the guys I dated honestly told me they have their limit and the fact that I'm losing weight and being active.

[Prettygurl12]

Are these ladies proportionate?

My future sisters-in law are both full figured ladies but they're not what I'd call fat. I'm very petite.

His sisters are both taller (5'10 and 6'0) and have larger busts and hips but they still have indents at the waist and have the hourglass figure and given their heights the weight is spread out well. They for sure not string beans though.

Then there's me...5'4, 105 lbs and small curves. My future brothers in law like their wives and my fiance likes me so... different strokes for different folks.

[NyomiMcClinton]

Black men are more prone to talk to a bigger female. No matter the race. White men love smaller petite females.

[karahiri]

some do. i think the more extreme the weight, the less interest.

[JCT666]

Depends on the guy and how big we're talking about?
For example, when I say I'd date a bigger woman I'm talking about this.
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But delusional fat acceptance feminists think I'm talking about this...
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[Prettygurl12]

The guy in that bottom picture is like, "Jesus Christ... if I look away maybe it'll go away."

[CyphorX]

I don't mind a woman being bigger if she is proportionate meaning I'm not attracted to women who are apple shaped but if she's a bigger woman but still has an hourglass figure then I can deal with that.

[JDavid25]

Yes, there are guys who love bigger chicks, and that's all they love.. For me as long as she is cute, and not obese or too overweight.. Then I'm good..

[EMoneyBagz]

How big we talkin?

A little extra weight, possibly, if u know how to carry urself n have sex appeal

If its sloppy, fuck no

[SC4321]

If by bigger women you mean fat women, then the answer is no. Curvy yes, fat no.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yes, i like bigger women both of my ex girlfriends were bigger girls.

[willwhitez]

Yes but they have to be healthy 10 20 30npounds extra is fine 100 200 300 is awful

[SurströmmingLover]

I really like curvy women and even a bit fat. But not too fat.

[Nahid1234]

They are beautiful, it is a preference for a guy and i am open to dating a girl who is a Little bigger than slim size 😊

[Anonymous]

No. looks unhealthy and unattractive to me.
But I'm sure some guys do.

[Anonymous]

Not unless it's proportional or you just mean in height

[zorro8888]

Depends on the guy. Some do, some don't.

[meatballs21]

Some guys do. I prefer smaller women.

[Farts12345]

Like what kind of bigger?

[MakingMeHiiiigh]

I like either, mostly face I'm into

[Anonymous]

Yes, I do.. no skeleton thin women for me.

[CT_CD]

Not usually

[dogfish]

um nope