Guys, what's the fine line between a girl who stops liking you just because you don't make her feel a certain way, and a girl who is too loyal to you?

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I feel like women are either damned if they do, damned if they don't in this way. Men get angry that women stop liking them just because the men act like they don't like them. But on the other hand, men lose respect for women who put up with too much.

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

I prefer a girl that is loyal and honest to me , because
My intentions is to do the same for her. If a girl stops
Liking me for whatever reason? I will talk to her and express my feelings of concern and if nothing changes , I just move on from her and realize she isn’t the girl for me. We can’t force someone to love us and we can’t force someone to stay loyal to us. All we can do is treat someone the same way we want to be treated in return. If someone chooses to walk away from you? Let them go, and realize you deserve better than that shit. Someone that truly loves you and cares about you, isn’t going to leave your side , they will stand by you the same way you stand by them. You both know the consequences of your actions , find someone that chooses you the same way you choose them. Never stay with someone that treats you like a convenience, life is too short to be a convenience to anyone. If you are not their top priority? , don’t make them your top priority , a relationship needs to go both ways for it to work and for love to continue to grow between the both of you , by learning to remove selfishness for each other , if you can not remove selfishness for your partner, don’t expect them to remove it for you. Understand you can’t always be right and your partner is always wrong , it’s ok to be wrong and it’s best to admit you were wrong to someone you want standing by your side , most people have a hard time admitting they are wrong so the only way anyone should leave a relationship , is if the relationship is one sided or they are being cheated on or being physically abused , other than that, you should try to fix what is broken between you both , before moving on from them. People with selfish mindsets should not be pursuing relationships with anyone , because they only care about themselves and what is best for themselves. If you can’t give what you expect to receive, you are just wasting your time by thinking someone is actually going to love you and give to you , they will just like the convenience of you.

imtiaz45 · Accepted Answer

The fine line between a girl who stops liking you because you don't make her feel a certain way and a girl who is too loyal lies in emotional fulfillment and personal boundaries. The former seeks emotional connection and satisfaction; if unmet, her feelings may fade. The latter values commitment and loyalty, often prioritizing the relationship over personal needs. Healthy relationships balance both aspects—mutual emotional fulfillment and loyalty. Understanding and addressing each other's needs while maintaining individual boundaries is crucial for sustaining a balanced and healthy relationship.   read

SugarSugarplum · Accepted Answer

Relationships, like people, have good and bad days. Any girl who ends a relationship because you picked the wrong word, or told her you don't want pizza tonight views you (and men in general) as disposable.

"Ah, he's not exactly what I want in this moment, I'll go pick out another one!"

Loyalty is harder, because girls are looking for a man to treat her kindly and protect her from the forces of evil (or something). A girl who stays loyal to a man who isn't kind or protective places no value on herself.

"I see myself as so mid that I'm lucky to have a guy at all, and I'd rather stay with the wrong guy than have no guy at all".

This girl is a sympathy trap. She won't feel loved unless someone - or preferably everyone - is pitying her and helping her in some way.

PositiveNote · Answer

When a girl stops liking me because I’m not making her feel some way, it’s because she’s looking for a specific attribute in a guy that I don’t have. That’s okay to be that way IMHO, but it would be best if she would just admit she feels the l need to move on. If the guy goes bonkers, so be it. We have to learn to control our emotions toward those who are honest with us. I’m guilty of demanding more than I should have in those type relationships. It’s best to let her go and move on like she needs to do.

Anonymous · Answer

That's like asking why do women go hot, cold, hot, cold. The REALITY of the situation is MOST women simply do not pursue HEALTHY love. These women become attracted to men who have minimal interest in them at best and are shocked when he goes from intense interest (love bombing) when he WANTS something. To minimal effort at best when he doesn't. It's the SAME as women who show interest in men when she just wants attention from him. She'll pretend to be attracted to him only to get him started then go stone cold on him once his motors started.

animalwithin · Answer

Desire, lust, etc. If she desires you, you'll know. If she's just with you just because she sees it as her duty to be loyal, she won't be INTO you, she'll just be there without really putting in any effort to loving and desiring you and being your girl.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

The ideal middle ground there is pretty easy to find. Don't try to force something that isn't really working. Don't look for any and every reason to jump ship.

And most importantly, if you do decide to just ship; don't be a social clumsy asshole about it.

It's really not hard.

loveslongnails · Answer

I've never known of or met a girl who is "too loyal". What does that look like, unless you're talking about a girl who ignores all and any red flags? Even then, I don't think of that as loyalty, but more like stupidity.

RavVid · Answer

The question doesn't make sense to me. Maybe because I don't pretend to not like a girl when I do and don't devalue a girl who s loyal.

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

That’s not a fine line at all. There’s a big, fat black line between a loyal mate and someone who loses interest as easily as a cat with a toy.

Loner111 · Answer

I'm sorry, but I'm not really understanding what ur asking... BUT, I would love to find a woman who is loyal to me.

AviatorTom · Answer

I like or dislike a woman for who she is, not for how clingy she is, or how picky she is.

clampfan101 · Answer

I can’t imagine feeling like someone was too loyal to me.

handsomelad70 · Answer

If the woman allows herself to be a man's doormat, which is unacceptable.

Anonymous · Answer

My ex loved everything I loved on purpose I hated it. My other ex you couldn't please her if you were Jesus. just have your own opinions and I can respect the difference.

NathanDavis · Answer

never had these issues

shortster · Answer

I always value loyalty

dolemite58 · Answer

What does too loyal mean?

Anonymous · Answer

Garbage girl

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