Does that make it a challenge to get her, or does it make you respect her and forget about it?
The really question is, if she tells you she is taken and is faithful, does it make you want her more because you can't have her?
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I can easily like someone for who they are and what they are... that does not mean I will go after them or try something even if the are not in a relationship
now if I really like someone and become intrigued or interested, I might get closer to that person and find out some more only if they are NOT in relationship, and also... if I perceive any level of reciprocity... if they are in a relationship, I would keep my distance on that regard, if they are not in a relationship but do not have an interest on me, then I won't be trying much either because it is kind of pointless
in the case that (and it has happened) someone is taken and she is faithful BUT... she starts to like me one bit or get curious, I will keep my distance because then I would just be causing some trouble
I have never actively tried something with a person that is in a relationship, whether they were faithful or not, more or less... I just keep away
I am likely on the wrong question.
I would not actively go after her, would be pointless as would need an emotional connection first.
I’m on the something else voting thing
life is complicated at times.
Things do change and it maybe that a person decides to become single again
How would pursuing her be a win under any circumstances. If you keep trying after it makes you look like you have no other options and can't respect boundaries because the fact she mentioned she was taken was an attempt to set a boundary. Also who would want her if she caved and hooked up with you anyway. I think it's important to hold yourself to a higher standard if you want a quality woman. Don't do the typical shit that a desperate guy would do.
It did happen to me once before when I was younger.
we liked each other actually, but she was taken.
it made me want her more, but I respected that she was taken and moved on.
then when she was available, I was not.
i guess bad timing... she was the girl that got away I guess.
Women should be low effort or they aren't worth dealing with so yeah nothing will happen with that girl. But since nothing never happened there isn't anything to forget either.
The only time it ever happened to me it looked like it really wasn't much of a relationship with this other guy. I just hung in there for a while until one day she told me she broke up with this other guy.
Most of the time makes me forget about her. 99% of the instances. I would still love to make a real connection with this one girl who is already married though.
No, I've been an orbiter and it feels disgusting, it's super unhealthy. Find someone who's open and free, single and ready to mingle. And don't be friends with her either thinking you'll get somewhere with her that way.
I'll respect her an wait until she comes to me.
God Bless
only a scum bag will try and take another guys female.
And if she leaves for you, she has zero value as well.
She will do it to you.
It’s difficult for me to get a girl that is single so there’s no point of even trying to get a girl that isn’t single and plus she’s also faithful. I’m just going to go move on
Being taken and not liking me makes her unattractive so it would push me away
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